3 Scientific Reasons Why We Lose The Spark and 3 Ways To Get It Back


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Today, I am going to share with you the reason that ultimately leads to losing that spark that was initially there at the start of the relationship. Although chemistry is important, for many, especially for relationships that didn’t last, it is not sustainable. And it does not provide a strong enough bond to keep the relationship going. Let’s find out what these scientific reasons are and the tips to turn things around to help improve and sustain the partnership you have right now.

Key Takeaways:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:03:12 Why do we lose the spark in our relationship?
  • 00:04:27 We are addicted to having chemistry
  • 00:07:40 Why the ‘bad boys’ seem more attractive
  • 00:11:09 Reason #1: Transition from chemistry to character
  • 00:15:53 Reason #2: From being a collaboration to a competition
  • 00:23:10 Reason #3: Your partner will push you and challenge you

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