Episode 191 ’Big Spoon’ (Ruby Ryder)


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Dang, is that cop wearing lacy women’s panties underneath his uniform? Pegging Expert & Podcaster Ruby Ryder takes to the stage - dressed for penetrative play as part of Bawdy’s Strap-on Fashion Show - to tell the story of Zach, a young macho dude in the military who longs to be dominated by a powerful Cougar. Will he be shamed for his desires, or have his pegging fantasies fulfilled? And newcomer Katie Cookie writes a custom song for Bawdy - it’s her first time, so be gentle! #ToxicMasculinity #Acceptance #LightsOnPantiesDown

This week’s storyteller:

Ruby Ryder (she/her) of PeggingParadise.com and Pegging101.com is a podcaster, writer, blogger, sex educator and sex worker. She appeared in an episode of Comedy Central's Not Safe With Nikki Glaser and is published in Women's Best Erotica 2014. Since 2010, Ruby has been educating people about the extraordinary joys of Pegging. She offers ongoing free webinars teaching people how to safely and comfortably explore the role reversal, the incomparable levels of prostate pleasure, and the deeper intimacy that can result from experiencing sex from the opposite side of the bed. Ruby resides in Southern California near the beach, and loves watching the surfers change out of their wetsuits.

https://PeggingParadise.com (with BDSM)

http://Pegging101.com/ (no BDSM)

Free Webinars: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/webinar-signup/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therubyryder/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Ruby_Ryder

Song: ‘Slowly’ (Katie Cookie)

Katie Cookie is a queer, polyamorous, mother of two living in the Bay Area. When she’s not busy slinging cupcakes or wrangling small humans, she loves writing and performing music…especially the smutty kind.

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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible

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This week’s Podcast Producer: Zoomkeeper Joseph

Auxiliary Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

Livestreaming by Rubeun Tan Web Streaming

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

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