A show that seeks to honestly examine the vulnerable realities of a life with many roles. This is an unpolished space to learn what it means to face our fear and live life scared confident.
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Our lives are intertwined with our parents’. And, in many ways for Tiffany, her life is also parallel to her parents’. Chapter 2: Dedicated to Jon and Wendy Schwab—my parents. In this episode, we hear Jon and Wendy reminisce on growing a business while they grew their family. In the midst of their struggles and triumphs, there was Tiffany—their out…
Building a business, when done correctly, should create incredible opportunities for worthy individuals. There is no one more worthy for this next opportunity than Kyler Mason. Chapter 1: Dedicated to Kyler Mason Kyler Mason—the once-22-year-old “basically intern” who joined E3 at a time in his life that was filled with grief and uncertainty. The s…
If there’s one thing Tiffany has learned in the first 17 years of her journey in building Element Three, it’s that she will never do it alone. This is The First 17 Years, a new series from Scared Confident. In this special series, Tiffany will be reflecting on the “ands” Element Three has brought into her life, introducing you to the characters tha…
Sometimes a story needs to be written before it’s finished. Tiffany is ready to share hers. In this episode, listen to Tiffany explain why she’s felt called to reflect more intentionally on the first 17 years of her journey in building her agency, Element Three—and the characters who have built her character along the way. Join us for the next seve…
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How do you cast long-term vision with limited perspective?
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This one is for the younger listeners. Whether you’re just starting your business, growing one, or looking into the future. There are 2 important factors here: what do you want your organization to look like–AND what do you want your life to look like as the leader of that organization (and at home)? Listen in as Tiffany shares her perspective on h…
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Q&A: How does community change as you add ‘ands’ into your life?
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”What does sustainable community look like for you as you add ‘ands’ into your life?” And how does it shift as you move through those ‘ands’ and different life phases? Life moves pretty quickly, and prioritizing community and relationships is a key part to growing personally, professionally, and even spiritually. Listen in on how Tiffany has approa…
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[REPLAY] Dear 24-year-old self, learning how to grow a business is not the same as knowing how to run one
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Lately, Tiffany has been reflecting on her journey in building Element Three (more on that soon…) so this week, we’re featuring a nostalgic replay of an episode from last year. In this episode, Tiffany gives advice to her 24-year-old self in a moment of growth for Element Three. Stay tuned for more next week… — “What I started to realize is that on…
”What do you do when life is no longer sustainable?” How do you know if it’s just a hard time, or if you actually need to get help? Whether that means getting professional help or powering through things, Tiffany reflects on times in her life when she had to walk through those struggles. Listen in for tips on how to weather the storm.…
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Prioritizing careers, relationships, and family with Lindsay Tjepkema
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What happens when you have the “ands” of marriage to a partner with a successful career, multiple kids, and owning a startup on your own? How do you keep things afloat, let alone find meaning and the depth along the way? Lindsay Tjepkema, co-founder and CEO of Casted, joins Tiffany to talk about finding encouragement, growth, and meaningfulness in …
Morning routines can make or break your day. Creating a streamlined, simplified morning routine is key to keeping things both moving and peaceful in a busy home. In this episode, Tiffany discusses the vital role sustainability plays in her life of “and’s”, and how she has learned to help her kids have low-conflict experiences before school in the m…
Some "and's" are out of your control–couples who have experienced infertility and miscarriages know this well. Sam and Brice Johnson join Tiffany for this very personal episode about their experiences with miscarriage and loss. They discuss what it's like to experience multiple miscarriages, the effects on their relationship, and how Sam and Tiffan…
Sometimes life dictates which ‘and’ you get to add to your list...or, if you get to add it at all. And sometimes, there is power in deciding what you CAN do. In this episode, Tiffany discusses how the power to choose the ‘and’s’ within your reach can add to your life and empower you to reach your goals.…
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100 episodes of being Scared Confident, and...
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100 episodes. 100 conversations on fear and love and parenthood and leadership and homemaking. And...this is just the beginning. Thank you for joining Tiffany for 100 episodes of Scared Confident. In this episode, she reflects on how she has grown throughout her Scared Confident journey, and what comes next for her and for the podcast. The And Netw…
”You pull a lot off and seem to be really happy most of the time—but how do you do that on the weeks where everything just stops? Where do you prioritize?” This is a question that Tiffany gets often—and her response is simple: keep it sustainable. In this episode, Tiffany discusses the important role sustainability plays in her life of “and’s”, and…
A marriage changes and evolves over time. We all know it, but it’s different when you experience it. This year Tiffany and J.R celebrate 17 years of marriage. In honor of the occasion, Tiffany brings J.R. back on the show to reflect on their relationship—where it started, how it’s evolved, and how they’ve grown together.…
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Thriving, not existing, in your relationship
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It takes a team to have a marriage, family, and career. All of it’s possible, but there are wrinkles couples have to work through. In this short episode, Tiffany brings on her husband J.R. to share his advice for thriving in a relationship when you both have careers and a family to nurture. Are there other questions you have for J.R.? Text Tiffany …
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I am a 10 regardless of what happens with Brian Kavicky
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What is your identity wrapped up in? Is it your performance at work? Your kids’ successes? How your marriage is going? Brian Kavicky is here to tell you that your identity is inherent. You are a 10–regardless of what you think of yourself. In this episode, Brian–owner of business training skills company Lushin Inc.–shares about I-R Theory, why you …
”You’re a girl, sit in the back of the room.” Many women have experienced the feeling of being asked to shrink themselves for the convenience of others. In this Q&A episode, Tiffany shares the practices that help her stand tall in any environment. What things do you practice to build your confidence? Text Tiffany at 317-350-8921.…
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I am for others: Choosing where to invest my time and resources
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In last year’s “fear journey” series, Tiffany discovered that the core of who she is all comes back to one statement: she is for others. In this episode, we get a glimpse into how this plays out through her investments in Rachel Downey and her business, Share Your Genius. Rachel and Tiffany share an intimate conversation about how their paths cross…
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How do I know I deserve a seat at the table?
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When you’re the youngest person in the room, it can feel like you don’t belong. Everyone else is older and more experienced. Why do you deserve to be there? In this Q&A episode, Tiffany reflects on her experiences of being a young leader for Element Three. Listen in as she shares the mistakes she sees when young leaders try to “fit in” and gives ad…
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Saying “no” to things that don’t matter with Zainab Bass
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Embracing a life of “and’s” can be a big transition–there are lots of voices (inside and outside of yourself) that speak into your fears and make you believe that you have to pick a lane and stay. But what if you learned to exist in the lanes that matter, and say “no” to the ones that don’t? Zainab Bass, Director at Periculum Capital Company, is do…
”I just said I felt guilty because I felt like a monster if I didn't say I felt guilty.” Guilt is a buzzword. Especially for working moms. But is it in our vocabulary because we actually feel guilty, or is it because it’s what we think we’re supposed to feel? In this Q&A, Tiffany reflects on her debut as a working mom and how she came to her own co…
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Turning walls that divide us into art that unites us with Cameron Moberg
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Cameron Moberg is a rebel. And he’s a community-builder. And he’s a muralist. When he was a teenager, he would graffiti the town by night. Now, he gets paid to paint beautiful, powerful murals in spaces–like the Element Three office. In this episode, Tiffany and Cameron talk about the mural he recently painted in the E3 office and its meaning, as w…
”If you aren't clear about what your gifts are, how in the world are you going to help the people you're being asked to lead find theirs?” Society tells us we shouldn’t say what we’re “good at”. It’s braggadocios. It’s not humble. It’s presumptuous. In this episode, Tiffany reflects on two moments that made her realize the importance of breaking th…
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Success loves discipline with Justin Maust
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Remember the story of the tortoise and the hare? The tortoise–slow and steady–wins the race, while the rabbit takes off like a bullet out of the gate, and runs out of energy before they can finish the race. Tiffany and her guest on this episode identify–for better or for worse–as that hare. Justin Maust is a certified EOS implementor, keynote speak…
”For a long time, I didn't want to be disciplined. I wanted all of the things discipline brought— to be fit, to have money, to have time—but I didn't want to be disciplined. I didn't think it sounded fun.” - Tiffany In this short episode, Tiffany reflects on her journey towards becoming more disciplined and shares ways she’s made it a part of her m…
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You can’t outsmart the process with Cat Edmonds
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”When you're not clear on what you want the business to be you can't understand how to create momentum in the organization.” - Tiffany When building a business, knowing where you’re headed is key. In this episode, Tiffany sits down with Cat Edmonds, Sales & Marketing Executive at Blackink IT, to share her thoughts on building the strategy side of a…
”How we choose to show up on the hard days are actually the days that matter the most.” As the Sauders go through a difficult season of life transition, Tiffany reflects on her mindset during the more difficult days. How do you make sure you show up for yourself? Text Tiffany at 317-350-8921
”My soul screams to live a life of ‘and’ where I can be Tiffany, and a wife, and a mom and have relationships with my kids, and a CEO, and an investor, and an owner of a business.” Tiffany shares her journey going from saying “no” or feeling like she has to choose to now embracing what it means to have a life of “and.” Listen in as she explores thi…
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Health is more than looking good with Zach Pello
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Every season of life has different challenges, and setting sustainable and attainable goals is a must for busy two-career households. In this episode, Tiffany reflects on her health and wellness goals in this season of life, and she’s joined by a guest who is helping her set and achieve those realistic goals. Tiffany spends 2 days a week lifting an…
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Don't let others’ perceptions control your reality
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”You must never see your kids. It must be nice to have in-home care to raise them.” When Tiffany heard this untrue statement, her blood began to boil. In this episode, she reflects on how the perception others have about you can feed fear. Listen as she shares how she works through these moments and her advice for others experiencing similar situat…
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Plan your life, then your business with Jenny Tod
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”What do I want out of my life?” Many entrepreneurs ask themselves that question while building their business, but do they let it influence their business in a real way? Tiffany sits down with Element Three’s former art director Jenny Tod as she transitions into building her own business, Jenny Tod Creative. Jenny and Tiffany talk about scaling yo…
When you depend on a person for in-home care and they can no longer help, what do you do? Tiffany shares her experience in transitioning in-home care when their nanny, Mrs. Garcia, retired earlier this year. Listen to the full episode to hear how the Sauders approached and embraced the change.
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Don’t be afraid of what you’re capable of with Ashley Butler
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“How will we get it all done?” may be the most commonly asked question in two-career households. Tiffany has been open about how their family depends on in-home care, but during seasons of change, it can be difficult to keep it all running. In this episode, Tiffany is joined by Ashley Butler, founder of MySherri, a home management services company …
Tiffany gets a lot of questions regarding work, life, motherhood, and balancing it all. Luckily, she’s an open book. In this Q&A episode, Tiffany shares how she and her husband afforded in-home care in the earlier years of their career. She talks about choosing to be “time rich” over being financially rich, being intentional about spending as a fam…
In this bonus episode, Tiffany shares what she is intentionally working towards in 2022.
Life, business, and motherhood all have peaks and valleys. Tiffany leans into all of them. As she embarks on Season 3 of Scared Confident, Tiffany pauses to reflect on lessons learned in 2021. In this episode, she vulnerably shares her thoughts on embracing the good times, identifying how her fears manifest, and how she’s grown by leaning into more…
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On the twelfth day of Christmas, Tiffany talks about the New Year
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the twelfth day of Christmas, Tiffany reflects on what 2021 has brought into her life. Listen as she shares her wishes for the Scared Confident family in the new year. What are you looking …
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On the eleventh day of Christmas, Aubrey celebrates with family
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the eleventh day of Christmas, Aubrey celebrates Christmas with her extended family. Listen as she shares her favorite parts about getting together with each. What do you enjoy about celebr…
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On the tenth day of Christmas, Tiffany prepares for the New Year
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the tenth day of Christmas, Tiffany prepares for the New Year. Listen to hear how they celebrate to make sure the adults and children have fun and fellowship. How does your family celebrate…
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On the ninth day of Christmas, Ivy looks for Lulu
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the ninth day of Christmas, Ivy looks for Lulu, the Sauder's Elf on the Shelf. What's your household's favorite Elf on the Shelf moment? Text Tiffany at 317-350-8921.…
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On the eighth day of Christmas, Tiffany feels expected
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the eighth day of Christmas, Tiffany makes people feel expected in their home. In this episode, you'll hear her describe the benefits of preparing for when you have guests during the holida…
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On the seventh day of Christmas, Aubrey goes to the Christmas Program
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the seventh day of Christmas, Aubrey goes to the Christmas program. Listen as she shares what's so special about getting to participate. What does your community's Christmas Program look li…
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On the sixth day of Christmas, Tiffany pursues experiences
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the sixth day of Christmas, Tiffany pursues experiences more than gifts. During her childhood, it was the experiences she remembers most. Listen as she describes how she prioritizes these m…
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On the fifth day of Christmas, Ainsley Celebrates Christmas
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the fifth day of Christmas, Ainsley celebrates. In this episode, she recounts her favorite family traditions of Christmas day. What is your favorite Christmas day tradition? Text Tiffany at…
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On the fourth day of Christmas, Tiffany puts her kids first
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the fourth day of Christmas, Tiffany strives to put her kids first. With so many people to buy gifts for, sometimes family gets pushed to the back. Listen to Tiffany as she describes how sh…
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On the third day of Christmas, Ivy goes to Nana's
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the third day of Christmas, Ivy goes to Nana's house. Listen as she shares some of her favorite memories. What's your favorite childhood memory during the holidays? Text Tiffany at 317-350-…
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On the second day of Christmas, Tiffany on the Holiday 5
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the second day of Christmas, Tiffany decides what aspects of Christmas she wants to focus on. Listen as she shares how she gives herself grace to not score a ten in each category. Which asp…
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On the first day of Christmas, Ainsley decorates
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Every family has its own holiday traditions. This season, Scared Confident brings you a sneak peek into how the Sauder's prepare for and celebrate Christmas. On the first day of Christmas, Ainsley describes their tradition of decorating their home. Take a listen to hear her favorite part. What's your part about decorating for the holidays? Text Tif…
“[The fear journey] forces you to understand how you view fear and how you think about fear. It helps you communicate with others who are in the same boat or who have lived through it. It forces the conversation because you're communicating and talking about the struggle and how to shift the mindset. And it's given me a playbook of how to live a be…