Podcast by The Elephant Mum
Like late night talk radio but with nice people and more laughs. Step into the After the Tone pub and send Scottee a voice note about whatever’s on your mind. You don't have to be queer or weird to join in - but it helps. Whatsapp us: (+44) 0788 200 3420 and start your voice note with, “Hi Scottee…”. New episode every Thursday morning.
This is a space to talk about loss and trauma, grief, where it is allowed to acknowledge that things are hard, without needing to fix us for being sensitive, sad or angry. While opening up space for healing, growth, loving ourselves and our lives through this. I am a certified health and transformational master coach specializing in healing and creating a life you love after loss and trauma and the mum of Simon, who died in my arms in February 2016, 5 days after he was born prematurely. You ...
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Broken beds, a lost butt plug, the joys of caring and here comes Pride month…By Debbie Productions
Queer friendship, chub rub, spicy cocktails and polyamory for beginnersBy Debbie Productions
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A shocking photo discovery, thoughts on sex work, haunted by social media, a trilogy of turd stories and an overfull emotional teacupBy Debbie Productions
Scottee & the gang are back on 5 May for another 10 episodes of gossip, tears, scandal and food fights. Get on the blower, leave us a voicemail!By Debbie Productions
Before listening, I want you to pause a moment to consider what you’re feeling right now and why you want to feel better. Most of us have never been taught to feel our emotions, which amplifies our experience of suffering. We resist, react or completely numb out in order to avoid our feelings. In this episode, I break down the three most common way…
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#5 Baby Loss: Memories, Mementos and Rituals
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❤️ "If we can't make memories we can't heal." I'm introducing the topic of this week's podcast episode with a quote from the movie 'memento'. We angel moms or parents, often have a limited amount of memories and mementoes. Shared experiences are rare or even non-existence, keepsakes might be just a few ultrasound pictures and things you could do fo…
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Full to the brim with first time callers, Nat shares her tea bag technique, there’s chat about learning to rest, Pauline’s quitting smoking and #roastpotatogate kicks off!By Debbie Productions
From straight, married vicar to out, gay student, finger knitting, carer burnout, JRF gets immortalised and a roasting from ScotteeBy After the Tone
Ru Paul, mum chat, carrots in the cinema, dysphoria, beanie babies and the realities of being skintBy After The Tone
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#4 Baby Loss and the time after losing Your Baby
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In Episode # 4 of the Grieve and Grow with Julia Go Podcast I'm talking about the first period of time after losing a baby. I'll cover numbness, searching and longing, thoughts and feelings and especially the questions we ask ourselves, and how to cope with those. If you want to connect or need more support please have a look at the following links…
Do gay men have ugly dogs? Outrage at a wedding fair and baps, rolls and a bag of vomitBy After The Tone
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Bonus Baby Loss Interview: The Elephant Speaks - Breaking the Silence around Baby Loss with Karen Prisco
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#3 Baby Loss and why it is different from any other loss
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Why losing a baby is different from losing a spouse, a parent or another loved one? I'm exploring this topic in Episode 3 of Grieve and Grow Podcast. My mission is to help you to understand your thoughts and feeling and to be able to find the words to express yourself with others. You can share this with your friends and family, who might need some…
Beslippered dickheads, Drag Race for kids, classed masculinity, when shame is sexy and the ATT Art ClubBy After the Tone
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#2 Every behaviour/feeling has positive intention (even guilt)
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Sometimes, this seems hard to believe. If we're talking about anger or even guilt, for example. I will explore, why this concept is relevant for you after losing a baby and how you can use it to shift behaviours and feelings that don't serve you anymore. Do you want more connection and support? Email me at: julia@grieveandgrow.space or book a free …
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You're listening to Episode #1 of the Grieve and Grow with Julia Go Podcast. This episode is about my why for recording this Podcast and my work with women who have lost a baby, like me. I'm also talking about the concept of taking imperfect action and how you can use it in your daily life. If you like what you hear so far, please like, subscribe, …
Queer elders and gravygate, addiction and romance, sticking up for yourself and an elaborate poo storyBy After The Tone
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How are you? It's been a while, bet you're bursting with gossip. We're back Thursday 3 February so Whatsapp us on (+44) 0788 200 3420 and start your voice note with, “Hi Scottee…”.By After The Tone
ATT's got talent, oh yes it has - tapdancing, fortune-telling, musical gargling and burps, an original ditty, JRF gets fruity...oh and quite a few poems.By After the Tone
Can you solve the 10 year poo mystery? Grace has a crush, JRF explains body doubling, and we have a few new additions to the pub - one underage!By After The Tone
Sperm donors, matchmaking, pandemic dating, a self-taught belly dancer and a sh*t in a royal parkBy After The Tone
A healthcare special featuring polyamory, fat phobia, jug dogs, blank slate genderism and black forest gateauBy After The Tone
Homemade kimchi, too fat for tits, demi-girl and the most fantastic story we've EVER had.By After The Tone
Square pizza and doughnuts, JoJo's found their mojo, JRF's got 'rona, mental health first aid and a call from down underBy After The Tone
Children doing aerobics, imaginary conversations, dead grandads, restrictive eating and sweaty anklesBy After The Tone
Fake tan on a sheep, a Gap bag of pubes, more Bristol bashing... and don't get Gemma started!By After The Tone
A groom drops a clanger, a communist nan, shitting yourself onstage and someone has a bone to pick with ScotteeBy After The Tone
Wig chat, a mini rant, tattoo pens & moving to a farm. Plus falling asleep on the toilet and what's your curry order?By After The Tone
For our first day back, we're hearing your horror stories from the first day of school. We also meet a ghost and debunk astrology - plus, our pooey friend is back!By After The Tone
Yes we're back! Leave us a voicenote: 07882 003 420 and join the gang for a grand reunion on ThursdayBy After The Tone
Creme brulee donuts, curly sandwiches, a bus driver magician, a birthday themed shit story and all the lovely regularsBy After The Tone
The joys of a Viennese Whirl, the meaning of self-care, and a very special surprise message for Scottee. And for the last time: the badges are not real!By After The Tone
Not one but TWO callers who have pooed their pants, a guide to douching, Kathy Burke’s drinks order, plus Lycra: love it or loathe it? (Spoiler: Scottee loathes it)By After The Tone
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G&T on a Dancefloor Surrounded by Lesbians
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Scottee's sounding sexy this week, Kirsten needs a decent bra, Monty Don makes an appearance...and we explore the joys of nudismBy After The Tone
Pissing in your JLS pyjamas, selection boxes, fat bodies in the heatwave, hair dilemmas and Baby Gay is back!By After The Tone
Scottee's got man flu...oh wait, no that can't be right...is it swine flu? Or maybe bird flu? Whatever sort of flu it is the poor love's not at all well but he's risen from his sick bed to send a messageBy After The Tone
This week: Scottee's laptop is buggered, queer ghosting, worst job interviews, the perils of shagging Tories and 12 litres of what?By After The Tone
Pie and Mash, wig or bandana? Tinchy Stryder, complaining Canadians and how to be a trans / non binary allyBy After The Tone
This week Scottee's on his bike in Wales. Plus toddler wisdom, chippy order winner, loving your oppressor, Scottee's gardening tips and The Great Poutine DebateBy After The Tone
Scottee and the ATT are BACK! It's a chippy tea special including: first burp of the season, otters pockets, battered sausages, fondant fancies and a tribute to old ladies. Welcome to the cult!By After The Tone
The Sun is shining, Scottee's stripped down to his vest and the brand new series of After The Tone lands this Thursday. What's the gossip? We're ready and waiting for your calls...By After The Tone