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I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel ...
 
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Some decisions INFJs can make in a jiffy. But others it takes us forever and ever. It's because we need to reach a certain critical mass in terms of information before we are ready to make particular decisions. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Che…
 
I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum, and now I realize there are many practices I built into my daily routine to help with my ADHD tendencies. To temper them so I can live in the world without rocking the boat too much. Which ones do you relate to? Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
 
INFJs like to spend a lot of their time in their heads, which means that they end up ignoring all the real-world situations, like paying bills, saving money, and more. I give you some tips in this episode to help manage your money better. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://t…
 
INFJs tend to go all-in when they are in a relationship, but that can result in an obsessiveness that isn't healthy. Watch the video for some tips on how you can balance yourself out when in a relationship, so you can stay healthy and happy. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:…
 
I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum. I always knew that I was neurodivergent in some manner, but doing some research on how people with ADHD and autism behave, really opened up my eyes to how I have done so many things unknowingly to adapt myself to this neurotypical world. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me furth…
 
I have always believed that INFJs have lots of great qualities, allowing them to become good at whatever career path they choose. But particularly, I think we would be great FBI agents or covert operatives. Except that we are terrible at lying and have a non-existent poker face. But yeah, besides that, we would be great secret agents. Thank you for…
 
INFJs are socially awkward and that makes them do embarrassing things and say foolish things to people even when they aren't high or drunk. People often think I am high but I'm not. I'm completely sober! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out …
 
INFJs tend to become extremely anxious and obsessive in a relationship and that makes them want to run away from the person they love. Does this happen to you? It has happened to me lots of times and it's been a challenge to remain calm and talk through my emotions rather than just running away. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with …
 
INFJs, when they move to a new city, country, or neighborhood, will always spend a few days or weeks driving or walking around to find out all the important shops and spots. Do you do this as well? It's just the price we pay for being an INFJ planner at heart. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Re…
 
INFJs have this bad habit of being overly involved in other people's lives and tasks and forgetting their own stuff. We will procrastinate on our important tasks by 'helping' others even when they haven't asked for our help or when they don't even want our help. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
 
Introverted intuition is such a fascinating power of INFJs. Lots of times, we will get insights from our intuition and have no idea why or where it came from. It's just there, asking us to believe it. But how do we explain this to others? It's impossible! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my…
 
INFJs don't need you to come in and punish us. We are very capable of doing that for ourselves, thank you very much. That's why we are always berating ourselves, and putting ourselves down, even for things that are not our fault. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillion…
 
INFJs are great in relationships and great lovers, but we have a tendency to hold ourselves back because of past relationship issues and trust issues. If we could only avoid doing that, we would be able to give and receive unconditional love, as much as possible in this imperfect world. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me furthe…
 
INFJs can become addicted to people, ideas, and actions quite easily because we are obsessive about our passions. But we have to be careful about that and do it in a controlled fashion. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel…
 
INFJs don't see any point comparing themselves to others, since people are so different from each other and on different paths. That's why we are constantly comparing ourselves to our past selves to see how much we have improved and changed. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:…
 
INFJs love collecting knowledge and then sharing that knowledge with the people they think would be helped most by it. Even if the person hasn't asked for this knowledge, we have this uncontrollable desire to share it, because we know it will better their lives. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
 
INFJs have a very unique way of processing and dealing with information. The older I get, the more conscious I become of this process and it just astounds and awes me. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out …
 
INFJs are overthinkers and overplanners. Sometimes it can be a positive trait, but other times, it can turn into a curse. Use the technique I speak about in this episode to stop your overthinking in its tracks. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and vi…
 
INFJs have a powerful intuition and that makes us believe that we know best about everyone. And maybe we do. But others really don't care about that, so stop being condescending to your friends and loved ones. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and vid…
 
It takes INFJs so much time to decide to do a doorslam, that they will rarely, if ever, reverse it. The person must truly show a lot of remorse for it to happen, but that usually doesn't happen. So doorslams, in my opinion, are usually irreversible. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can …
 
INFJs sabotage their efforts by doing this silly thing. It's a defense mechanism to protect ourselves from failure because we are perfectionists. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soul…
 
INFJs spend too much thinking, analyzing, and ruminating, and not enough time doing. If we changed this way of doing things, we would accomplish great things in this world, which is our birthright as unique souls. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and…
 
INFJs have this unique character trait where we bounce back from good, bad, and all other experiences quite fast. It might even seem like those events never happened to us. We appear to be cold automatons without feelings or emotions, which is not true. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you …
 
You might be surprised to see an INFJ silent as a mouse and boring as anything when they are around people who they don't trust yet. It might seem like we are two-faced because of this, but as time passes by and we get more comfortable, things will change rapidly. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins…
 
If you are interested in an INFJ, then you will want to ask them the right questions to get them to open up. Otherwise, it will be as quiet as the Sahara on your dates or meetups. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. C…
 
INFJs are afraid of confrontation and of asking for what they need. That's why setting boundaries can be such an ordeal for them. Have you gotten over this fear of ours yet? Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check i…
 
INFJs are quirky, weird, odd, strange, and many more such descriptions apply to us. That's why we usually end up feeling out of place and disconnected from our families and loved ones. That is, until we find our tribe and our place in this world, which, unfortunately (or fortunately) takes a long while. Thank you for listening! I have just started …
 
If you were wondering why you have a hard time being in a relationship as an INFJ, don't wonder anymore. It's a common tendency among all of us and it's the reason why we are single more often than not. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for…
 
Authenticity is a primary value for all INFJs, and this tends to rub some people the wrong way and other people the right way. Some people tend to hate us from the get-go and others tend to love us forever and more. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, a…
 
No one ever believes I am a feeler, because I come across as so stoic and cold, but also because I never say 'I'm feeling this way or that.' It's so weird! I'm a feeler, I swear, but it only shows up on the inside. Never on the outside. Well, only with practice, I guess. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul V…
 
In this podcast episode, I chat with a psychologist who chats about how narcissists think of people and why they are so attracted to INFJs in particular. If you are surrounded by narcissists, then you will want to listen to this episode. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all o…
 
I used to always wonder why I ended up with so many ENFP friends, and Maryia was able to explain that to me, using depth typology. It's so fascinating! Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.l…
 
My INFJ friend, Elle, and I share 5 lessons each that we have learned in our journey on this beautiful blue planet. I hope you can gain something from this. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://…
 
In this podcast episode, I speak to an INFJ male, who laments about how INFJ males have only two modes of operation - either they are too nice or they become aloof, cold, and bitter. Do you relate to this? Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos …
 
INFJs assume that people need help if they are complaining about something and we will do anything to help them. But sometimes (most times) people are complaining just for the sake of complaining. You are wasting your energy by giving advice and help when it's not asked for. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called So…
 
INFJs should always carry earplugs around with them and headphones to listen to music. This way they can always be protected from any noise around them and protect any drains on their limited stores of energy. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and vid…
 
INFJs tend to go for relationships with people who take advantage of us and treat us badly, over ones who treat us right and love us right. This way when the relationship fails, because it inevitably will, we can conclude yet again that we are unworthy of love. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins wh…
 
INFJs hold themselves to high standards, of course. But we also hold others to a high standard and we get irritated or disappointed when people fall below those standards, particularly when people display signs of laziness, both mental and physical. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can …
 
INFJs have a hard time asking for help, which means that we don't build a very good foundation for many relationships. But you can stop doing that now, and start asking for help, no matter how uncomfortable it makes you, especially on the big stuff! Remember, practice makes perfect. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community c…
 
I wasted so much of my youth avoiding important details of my life because I was too afraid or felt too inept. But they were still there waiting for me when I returned back to Earth and stopped avoiding them. And I was worse off because I had to deal with the repercussions of procrastinating on them. Don't let this happen to you as well. Thank you …
 
I made lots of mistakes in my university life because I was a clueless INFJ. But I don't want you to make those same mistakes. Listen up for some good advice from an older (been there done that) INFJ. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a…
 
When I make new friends, I'm always afraid that they will reject me, so I would reject them first in the past. BUT now I try to remember that not everyone will reject me, even though many have in the past. And I go in believing that people will accept and love me as I would accept and love them. Thank you for listening! I have just started an onlin…
 
If you are living with a narcissist, you might be at your wit's end on how to deal with them. But moving out and cutting them out of your life isn't the only option here (although if you can do this, it would be great for your mental sanity). Listen to this episode for some tips on how to deal with narcissists in your home. Thank you for listening!…
 
I have had to develop some interesting techniques to ensure that I stick to my yoga, meditation, and walking habits. Otherwise, I would deteriorate very fast into doing nothing and complaining about doing nothing (like I used to do before). Listen to this episode to learn more about the tricks I use to convince myself to stay consistent with import…
 
INFJs spend a long time pondering and thinking and analyzing before getting into a relationship. And once it fails, we spend even more time thinking over what we learned from the relationship and what we can do to not repeat our mistakes. That's how it is, so you better prepare yourself, if you want to date us. Thank you for listening! I have just …
 
INFJs are not easy to date. Neither are we easy when we are in relationships. It's difficult all around. That's why if you want to be with an INFJ, you better prepare your heart, soul and body for the long haul. Seriously! Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, b…
 
INFJs love being romantic and romanced, but we would never say that out loud because it's somehow shameful for us to admit that. We want to be practical and pragmatic. Not romantic and irrational. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low…
 
INFJs do really well in one-on-one situations. We shine like diamonds and we are charming AF. But in group situations, we falter due to all the emotions coming at us and we get confused about what to say or what to do. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books…
 
INFJs feel like outsiders and aliens because they think differently from the way the rest of the world thinks. So we are constantly trying to understand the world and our place in it. It's one of our main missions in life. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, b…
 
INFJs have this tendency to stay calm and aloof in the moment of crisis and then go into their room or cave to process emotions. We also emotionally numb ourselves because we need to stay strong and perfect for the sake of family and friends. Do you do this? Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where…
 
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