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Welcome to the Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia! Grab your favorite food and beverage and kick back with Goddess Cecilia and her guest as they talk about taboo topics, shed light on and debunk myths, and educate us to a healthier and pleasurable lifestyle. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cecilia-villero/support
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S1E15 Vulnerability is the Fertile Soil ft Kenna Cook
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To say that Kenna is a modern hero is an understatement! In this episode, she shared with us her story of teaching hundreds of children in rural places in California. Her commitment and passion to advocate and spread awareness about sexual health and sexual education to kids and teens are astounding! Topics Covered: Teaching in rural areas of Calif…
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S2: Ep 16 - Michael Serving Guncle Realness
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If family is defined by the people whose DNA I share, then I'm definitely related to thousands of men out there. Finding your chosen family, passing on your wisdom, and leaving the space better than when you found it is the central idea of Michael Dumlao's book, The Wisdom of Guncles. We discuss what it means to be a guncle and have a little kiki o…
If Gaga had an album about love and genuine connection and learning to be one with the body, would it be called Somatica? I chat with somatic sex and relationship educator Vance Hedman about what exactly is somatic practice and how we can use it in our lives to have better sex, more authentic relationships, and getting comfortable with the uncomfor…
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S1E14 The Cheese Stands Alone ft. Kate Murray aka Velvet O'Claire
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Let’s talk burlesque with Kate Murray! Our guest in this episode brings stand-alone cheese and milk in a wine glass - because she is a mothaf*cking adult and we are here for it! That sums up the vibe of this episode and we're sure you’re going to love it as much as we did! Kate shared her story as a theater artist, burlesque dancer, educator, and s…
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S2: Ep 15 - What‘s Up, TikTok Butt Doc?
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If the gays should be known for anything, it's that we invented anal. Sad part is that some gays are still behind (pun intended) on the butt knowledge. Gay gastrointestinal doctor and viral TikTok sensation Doctor Carlton joins me as we talk about Anal 101 and how to best prepare yourself for that rear end pleasure and all the mishaps that could co…
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S1E13 Pinay Power Hour ft Justine Ang Fonte
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If you are a Filipino, we are sure you’ll be prouder to be one in this episode with our guest, Justine Ang Fonte! She has shared her story of bravery, passion, and oozing talent with us and it is such a humbling honor to be able to bring her to the raw bar. Lean in and be inspired as Justine talks about her story, having the privilege to be a sex e…
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S2: Ep 14 - Cryin’ Ryan’s Sad Boi Summer
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Ryan Cassata, a.k.a. my future hubby he just doesn't know it yet, chats with me about his lived experience as a trans man and what it means to create and shape your trans identity your way. We talk about media representation, the trans dating scene, and there's a slight mention of J.K. R*wl*ng because absolutely fuck her. Follow Ryan's socials! Ins…
If it's pup, then it's pup, then it's pup, then let's fuck. I am joined by actual canis americanus Cooper to talk to me about the pup lifestyle. (insert doggy style pun) We talk about puppy play versus furries, the dynamics of consent, and the ways in which we carry our separate personas with us everywhere we go in order to help connect with our mo…
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S1E12 Go Your Own Way ft. Michael Guichet, LMFT
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Are you a parent who has been wanting to raise your children in a sex-positive home? Then this episode is for you! Mike is a sex therapist and a proud dad to his daughter. Goddess Cecilia and Mike talked about fascinating topics about Mike’s work as a sex therapist, how he is navigating through this pandemic and how he helps his clients. He also ha…
It's been a year since the show launched! To help me celebrate our anniversary on Pride month, I invite certified zaddy (zodiac daddy) Colin Bedell to help break down what is literally the gayest thing imaginable: ASStrology! What's your sign and how can you use it to improve your sex life? Are we more than our planetary rulers? Which sign is most …
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S1E11 "Be the Queen, No Matter How They Shuffle" ft Dr. Colby Z
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What are sexuality, sexology, and sex? Is our idea of love, relationships, and even food bound by our limited social constructs and definitions? Indeed, the tea continues to spill in episode 11 with Dr. Colby Z. Listen as we delve deeper into the world of sexuality, breaking labels and shoulds, our privileges, and the fluidity of love and relations…
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S1E10 A Queen & A Goddess Share Some Tea ft The Trauma Queen Jimanekia
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Trauma Queen Jimanekia graced today’s episode with her wisdom of navigating around trauma and thriving in creating awareness and community for survivors. She generously shared with us her story, how she stays grounded, what it feels like to walk around the Earth on a daily on high alert as a sexual assault survivor and working on her trust muscle t…
Porn star. Author. Men's coach. Owner of a gigantic cock. Multi-hyphenate Erik Everhard drops by to talk about his work in porn and how he transitioned to becoming a men's coach to help guys unleash their sexual superpowers. Content warning: lots of heterosexuality, so have a barf bag handy. Honestly, he was reeeaaaallllyyyy close to making me stra…
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S1E9 MILF Magic with Goddess 69 ft Amy Labrecque
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As an OG Athena Goddess, Goddess 69 Amy Labrecque hosted the most exciting parties and empowered women to know more about their pleasure and own it. As a mother, she led a sex-positive home and taught her children to call their private body parts as it is and be well educated in sex. For her children’s friends, she is always the mom to ask not only…
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S2 Bonus: Freyja Mind and the Rest Will Follow
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You ever been shadowbanned by Instagram because you posted a cute booty pic and then had that same pic printed and photocopied for the entire class to see because you ran afoul of a bridge troll you hooked up with the night before and promised to call him in the morning but didn't? No? Just me? Okay. Porn star extraordinaire Samantha Bentley and Sh…
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S1E8 Making Waves to Capsize the Status Quo ft Mermaid Chè Monique
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Do you ever wish you could be a mermaid? This episode is for you! Lean in as Mermaid Chè talks about her advocacy in filling the gap in Mermaid attires as a plus-size mermaid, the power of representation, and her mermaid training. Topics Covered: Mermaid Chè’s merstory The power of representation How fat definition can be varied Plus size mermaid c…
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S2: Ep 11 - Wham Bam Thank You, Cam!
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Crikey, mate! Listen up, men. Here's some breaking news for you: Y'ALL SUCK! But that's okay. It's the fact that you suck that gives educators like me and my guest Cam Fraser a job. Sex educator and coach Cam calls in from 'Straya to talk about all things masculinity, what men are doing wrong in the bedroom, and what we can do to improve ourselves …
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S1E7 Bastos Without Borders ft Tim Lagman
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Be prepared to spill your drink as you are guaranteed to laugh hard in this episode with Goddess Cecilia and Tim! They talked about Tim’s experience as an escort and how that started his journey in sex education. Tim’s wit and ability to discuss challenging topics in a fun and light way makes this episode so much fun, entertaining, and very informa…
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S1E6 Ride Your Own D*ck ft Heather Elizabeth
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Ride your own d*ck is definitely the fitting title for this episode. We are so grateful for Heather for sharing with us her story, wisdom, and passion. In this episode, Goddess Cecila and Heather talk about social justice in sexuality, working with a therapist, shifting your trauma, and defining what sexuality is for you. Heather also graciously sh…
Revisiting the female orgasm, but this time through a psychology lens. I invite couples therapist Paloma "MoMa" de la Hoz to talk about how to achieve an orgasm, what's keeping women from getting an orgasm, and hopefully men will FINALLY be able to locate that wayward clitoris. They probably still won't, but it's worth a shot. Follow Moma's socials…
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S1E5 Art, Life, and Openness ft. Erika Kapin
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Sushi, wine, and everything nice and queer is the theme of this episode! Lean in as Goddess Cecilia and Erika talks about Erika’s debut in photography and music and how she loves to capture life in its rawness and beauty. Erika shares her creative process and the meaning behind her projects. She is an advocate for bringing awareness to queerness an…
Are you having too much sex? Too little? Is it the meds? Are we just getting too old for the spread eagle position? You and your boo no longer be fuckin' like y'all used to. Oof. How do you get back to that happy honeymoon sex palace? Good for Her founder and sex therapist Carlyle Jansen tells us how to put the oomph back in our sex lives when our …
Prepare your charcuterie board and listen in as Lola shares her journey of how she started in the sex education industry and a peek into her life story. You’ll definitely need a pen and paper to jot down golden nuggets from this gold mine of an episode. Goddess Cecilia definitely had an awesome time recording this and we hope that you’ll enjoy this…
Finally! An episode that can give a more reasonable explanation as to why I'm single instead of me being a trash ass garbage slut! I invite sex and love educator Jayda Shuavarnnasri to explain the relationship escalator and how we use it as a marker of successful relationships when in reality, it's fucking gross girlllll. Time to redefine what a he…
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S1E3 3 A 2 and a 9 Have a Chat - ft Jessica VonDyke
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Jessica is such an approachable person that she's literally THAT friend. That friend who we go to about our firsts. It's amazing to know that everything around us is a big factor in our sexuality. In this episode, she tells us how she came from being a theater design student to being interested in erotic art to finally co-owning a Wellness Center w…
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S1E2 Parenthood & Partnership ft. Cecilia's Partner Andrew
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Do you love hearing love stories of awesome married people? Then this episode is for you! Goddess Cecilia and Andrew sat down together in this episode to share with us their story, how they met and how they decided to be parents. If you’ve been wondering how Goddess Cecilia is navigating parenthood as a sex educator, this episode is the episode to …
I love to eat ass as much as the next fag, but eating ass is hungry work! I invite culinary artiste and occasional age liar Kevin Francisco to feed us the good tea on aphrodisiacs, how food and sex are so closely related, and he tells me the perfect meal I can prepare so I can bottom for my husband Idris Elba. It might actually help if you eat whil…
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S1E1 Introducing Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia
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Welcome to Raw Bar! Join Goddess Cecilias as she ushers us to the show, what to expect, and exciting episodes to look forward to! In this show, we will take you for a ride along with our amazing guests sharing their unfiltered, uncensored, and 100% raw and real stories. Topics Covered: What is Raw Bar and what to expect Who is Goddess Cecilia Topic…
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S1E0 Trailer: Welcome to The Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia
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Goddess Cecilia is a Sexuality & Pleasure Educator/Consultant who believes that even though most of the ocean remains unexplored, your pleasure doesn’t have to be. She encourages you to dive deep into the depths of your pleasures as a healthy and healing part of self-care. Whether it's through pleasure pod workshops, pampering and pleasure products…
So...yeah...this happened. There's a guy named Dan who I pay to fuck me (and also I fuck him) and I decided to interview him, and this is the result of that messy conversation. Listen, this was absolutely nerve-wracking because this was a side of our relationship that we didn't really get to explore. I figured it was about time that I made this epi…
Alright, spill. Who among us used Valentine's Day to fuck around? It's okay. I won't tell. I get it. Spring is in the air, we're basically out of the pandemic, everybody be fucking. I mean, seeing my garden of tulips is enough to get me horny simply because of the name. But if you fucked around when you weren't supposed to, then you're a piece of s…
The reason gay people are so awesome is because we exist inside you. Your chakras are literally a rainbow, and we have stolen the colors so we're always inside you. Tantric healer and sex and love coach Shanice walks me through the art of tantric healing and how you can use incorporate it in the bedroom. Apparently, even a bukkake is considered tan…
Establish dominance like a boss with Houston-based sex educator and kink connoisseur Madam Carmen as she teaches us all about how to harness that power in the bedroom. We're talking sensual sadism, caring for your bottoms, and even top self care because apparently tops are people too! The party don't start until the top walks in. Madam Carmen(she/h…
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S2: Bonus - Oh Nikky, You’re So Fine
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V*lentine's Day. Ugh. While some (read "straight") people love to celebrate this weird ass holiday, it annoys me to no end. The only thing I look forward to around this time is the marked down chocolate hearts keeping my dentist in business and my diabetes coming stronger. But if you are one of those annoying people who celebrate this nonsense, at …
As a legendary mythical diva once sang: do you belieeeveee in life after looovvee? I am joined by Kaci Myers to talk about her experience with falling in love, falling out of love, and all the pretty shit that comes with divorce and how do we get back on our feet after a breakup of this magnitude. Surprise, surprise...men are at fault ONCE AGAIN. A…
I'm all about having as much fun as possible, but I don't have a death wish. I sure hope you don't either because that means less dick for you. But more for me lol. If you're gonna parTy and play, do you know how to do it safely? If you're gonna hook up with a tight butthole, do you know how to keep ya pecker safe? Harm reduction educator Niyyah jo…
I can't believe that in the year of our Dua Lipa 2022 we STILL don't know shit around HIV/AIDS (callin' you out on your shit, DaB*by). What's a gay to do when HIV is literally all we talk about in our community? Invite a hunky pharmacist who knows all about it! Andrew Schonbe, a.k.a. Pharmacist Drew, of the Ontario Prevention Clinic pops in on loca…
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S2: Ep 1 - Fappy New Year: 2021‘s Year in Review of Bad Sex
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This is 2021's year in review of all things bad sex. I think the feeling is unanimous when I say that we've had enough of the pandemic, shitty politics, poor media consumption, and horrible sex. You're not alone. Ring in the New Year and sit down with me and Em from The Sexistentialist Podcast as we recap some of the wildest sex things last year ha…
Do you want just the tip? A little taste of what's to cum? Have a quicky and listen to some garbage your stomach can tolerate. Email: timlagman@sexedwithtim.comFor early access, ad-free episodes and more, support the show through Patreon Follow Tim on all social media!Instagram: @gayslutclown and @sexedwithtimFacebook: Sex Ed With TimTwitter: @gays…
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S1: Ep 20 - Give the Doula Your Moolah
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I truly have no idea what goes on when you're pergonant...pergnan....perogiean...pargnont? Whatever! That's why I invited Anna Balagtas, certified doula in birth, abortion, and postpartum, to help me figure out what the hell is up with the womb. What's the dealio with doulas? What makes them different than midwives or OB/GYNs? Can I make my titties…
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S1: Ep 19 - Itty Bitty Safer Sex Committee
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Eyes up, pens at the ready, and genitals locked and loaded. This is your crash course episode on all things safer sex with the sexual health and consent educator queen herself, Samantha Bitty. How do we pick the right birth control? What happens when you get an STI and you have to tell your partners? Is a three-year age difference considered "daddy…
Give yourself the gift of pleasure this holi-gay, babyyy! When we think of pleasure, we automatically think of getting down and dirty. But guess what? It's more than that! Pleasure is everywhere around us, but where do we start to look for it? What is pleasure supposed to feel like to those of us have never felt pleasure? Also, is it pleasurable to…
The holidays can be such a fucking drag if you're single. I sit down and chat with sex educator Shae to talk all about the ins and outs of dating so that you don't have to go to that holiday party with your right hand as your plus one. More about Shae: California Native, Renaissance Woman, Sex Educator, Momepenuer, Writer, and Philanthropist. Shae …
'Tis the season and we're taking things a little differently this episode. I get a straight guy to ask me questions! AJ, my heterosexual best friend who I bought on sale at Home Depot, has a lot of questions for me and my gay ass. We're talking about my sex education journey, the story of my coming out, and also that embarrassing time I had a crush…
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S1: Ep 15 - Not By the Hair of My Sydney Rae Chin
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♪ You just keep on pushing my love over the borderline ♪ We're talking boundaries today. Don't you just love it when people ask permission before they do anything to you? Ouuuu. How do we assess our boundaries? What does it look like when consent is broken? Is No-Neck Ed from 90 Day Fiancé a literal sweaty potato? Check yourself before you wreck yo…
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S1: Ep 14 - April and Amy Have No Shame-y
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As someone who owns a huge tree trunk of a penis, I'm not quite well-versed in the art of vulva/vagina masturbation. So I decided to get 2 actual human females to help me out with that! The gorgeous Amy and beautiful April of the Shameless Sex Podcast drop by to give me a hand. Or a finger. Or a toy. What exactly is an orgasm? How do people who can…
Happy Halloween you filthy cum dumpsters! Enjoy this bonus episode as I am joined by Holly, co-host of The Spooky Hour, as we talk about all the scary things that love and sex can make us do. Murder? We got that. Blowjobs and car accidents? Check. Talking about how Vin Diesel is hot? Done! Enjoy your trick-or-treat haul and have a laugh with us as …
Girl, we get real on disrupting what you believe sex should and shouldn't be. Erica Smith is here to talk about purity culture. What is purity culture? How has this culture damaged our perceptions of sex and sexuality? Did Jesus Christ the Lord and Saviour eat ass at the Last Supper? Drop out of your biases and drop your pants because we're about t…
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S1: Ep 11 - It‘s Hard Out Here for Lady Pim
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As a gay man, I'm obsessed with women and powerful women at that. Lady Pim is just that powerful woman that owns my heart and literally anything else she wants from me. She is a sex/kink educator and pro domme armed with all the knowledge you fetishists and kinksters want and need. On this episode we chat all about the dominatrix business, what mak…
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S1: Ep 10 - Young, Dumb, and Full of Cum
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If you want to know how coaching sessions with me would go down, then listen to this. You get to hear my in my element a bit in this episode as I answer sex questions from fellow poop-chute fucker Ethan. What's the deal with PrEP? What's the correct way to douche? And I answer the age-old question: why are gay men literal steaming piles of trash? E…
