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Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast ...
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Get ready for a value packed episode that will get you set on the path towards accepting securely attached love! In this episode, you will: Release constraining beliefs and narratives that block love from flowing freely. Learn how to establish unwavering self-trust, fostering a connection between safety and affection. Cultivate emotional regulation…
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You are going to love this episode! I have a special guest, ESL Program graduate; Michelle Peth. In this episode you will hear Michelle and I discuss her vulnerable journey to becoming the securely attached, emotionally healthy woman she is today: Michelle shares about how “doing the work” changed her life She opens up about the “messy middle” of h…
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ROI isn’t just for finances anymore! Discover the importance of ROI in relationships as I share how to invest your energy wisely and prioritize your own growth in a romantic partnership. With the help of this episode, you will be able to: Appreciate the benefits of attending to personal emotions as a way of self-care. Explore the intriguing concept…
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This episode was inspired by a conversation I overheard from two women. They were talking about: “Love Addiction and Sex Addiction.” Is it really an addiction, or is it your attachment style? Oftentimes anxious attachment FEELS like an addiction. Inside this episode I unpack: Anxious Attachment Strategies for Reassurance Anxious / Avoidant Relation…
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Are you tired of constantly being told to 'just be yourself' and 'practice self-care,' yet still feeling unfulfilled and disconnected? Ditch the ineffective advice and join me in this episode, where you'll learn practical steps to cultivate drama-free relationships, experience emotionally available intimacy, appreciate evolving friendships, and pri…
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Discover the power of radical self-acceptance and forgiveness as I challenge you to take ownership of your own relationship struggles — so what if you're the red flag?! Are you tired of being told to just forgive and forget in order to have healthy relationships? But despite your efforts, you still feel stuck in toxic patterns and unfulfilling conn…
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How can we break the cycle of trauma from our upbringings? This one dives deep! In this episode, I delve into the often overlooked topics of father and mother wounds and discuss how they impact our sense of identity, confidence, emotional safety, and self-compassion. But what happens when these wounds are passed down from generation to generation? …
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You won’t want to miss this episode! Today I am answering audience questions and specifically addressing how you can have a great relationship, after being in a toxic relationship. Inside this powerful episode you will learn: The power of self-trust: how to show up securely attached and regulating emotions How to identify your securely attached rel…
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Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, Secure, OH MY!? If you’ve wanted a deep dive on attachment styles, this episode is for you. We are picking up where we left off last week, and diving into Disorganized and Secure Attachment Styles today! Inside this episode I discuss: Where the term “disorganized” came from Why I dislike the BPD label The thoughts, …
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Let’s get into it! Today’s episode is about Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles. Inside this episode: I review the evolution of Attachment Theory Research I discuss the thoughts, behaviors, beliefs of the Anxiously attached person We review Avoidant Attachment (and discuss the growing edge for avoidantly attached folks) This episode is JAM PACKE…
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Time for a tough love episode! TRUTH: In my past, I was caught in a vicious loop of self-doubt,and I was unable to break free from the false beliefs I had about my worth. I know what it is like to not see your own worthiness, and believe the lies that other people are worthy and you are not. Inside of this episode I discuss how you can: Uncover and…
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Today’s guest is truly AMAZING! It was an honor to have her on the show. Casey Williams is a graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program and I knew that you all needed to hear her story after I met with her in our 1:1 coaching sessions. She is SO vulnerable on the show, everything from how using alcohol as a numbing tool impacted her, to learni…
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HIGH VALUE EPISODE ALERT!!! After a ton of requests from the audience, I am finally giving you the guide book on dating multiple people at once. You won’t want to miss this one! Inside this episode, you will be able to: Master the art of dating multiple people while maintaining a secure attachment style. Understand the crucial role of open communic…
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Struggling with unhealthy relationships and deep-rooted shame, Andrea Ashley found solace in sharing her story through her podcast. Little did she know, this courageous act of vulnerability would not only grant her healing and self-discovery, but serve as an inspiration for her listeners, revealing that hope and happiness are possible after all. In…
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Inside of this episode, I encourage you to break free from the belief that all anger is bad, and I help you see that you can use it as fuel to make powerful and necessary changes in your life! In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Uncover the significance of addressing and managing anger for personal improvement. 2. Distinguish between construct…
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Have you ever wished you could ask all the questions about healthy sex? Have you ever felt like you just don’t know how to talk to your partner about sex? Like when you want to express your sexual needs, no words come out? If you relate to any of the above, then you NEED THIS EPISODE! Dr. Nazanin Moali, from the Sexology Podcast, joins me on todays…
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Drumroll please…. Inside of this special interview we speak with program graduate, Yenny Bonilla! Y’all are gonna love this one! Yenny gets very vulnerable and shares: What life was like before “doing the work” Her favorite parts of the program Her new belief relationship belief system I am so excited for Yenny as she continues her healing journey.…
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Dating Mindset is KEY to enjoying the dating process. And enjoying the dating process is key to finding your person. Don’t miss this episode where I unveil my top three mindset shifts that you need for a healthy, enjoyable, and FUN dating life that brings you closer to your person! Inside of this episode: -I dive into the importance of a healthy be…
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Today’s episode is one you won’t want to miss! I am answering YOUR dating questions, and responding to all things you hate about dating! Inside of this episode I talk about: -The real reason you’re upset he’s not picking up the bill on the first date -How to communicate about your communication -What to do when he asks for “space” I am giving you t…
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"Discover how rejection can be a powerful force to redirect your life in a positive direction!" Truth: Fear of Rejection is NORMAL. Inside of this episode: I start by normalizing the fear of rejection and explaining why it's important to not let it run the show. I discuss that in order to release fear of rejection, you will benefit from: belief wor…
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“The Rent to live in Reality is High” One of my friends said this to me years ago…and it never stuck until now. The fact is it is so easy to stay in a distorted, anxious/avoidant attachment version of reality when dating We must intentionally rewire our brains for healthy love. Inside of this episode: I teach what Reality Testing is, and WHY you ne…
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Dating doesn’t have to be miserable!!! Inside of this episode, you will discover the coping behaviors that can help you build resilience and regulate your nervous system while dating. Inside of this episode, I will give you actionable advice on how to regulate your emotions, and practice self-compassion. Trust me, with the right tools, you can shif…
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This is not your average “Dating How To” This is for women who are seeking the real deal. When you know you are READY for a serious, life partner, emotionally mature kind of connection. Inside of this episode, I teach you how to: Create a dating profile that gets the results you want Leverage your time and energy (so you’re not wasting time on the …
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In this episode, I discuss the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" : Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. These “4 Horsemen” as originally taught by John and Julie Gottman, are exactly what you DON’T want in your relationship! Inside of this episode: You will learn how to combat these unhealthy conflict skills (what you should be doi…
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Buckle up, this is a value packed episode that will have all kinds of light bulbs going off for you! We discuss relationship development in this episode, from both healthy development, and what it looks like in a relationship with a narcissist. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the experience of being in a relationship with …
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Today, we have a very special guest, a graduate of the ESL program; Emma Wellings. Emma Wellings is an international wardrobe stylist, founder of her own clothing line, Style on the Go, and graduate of the Empowered, Secure Love program. She is passionate about fashion, horse riding, working out, travel, and the arts. In this episode, you will lear…
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Pssssst- I have never opened up about this topic before on the podcast! I am choosing sobriety in 2023 and inside of this episode I walk you through WHY In this episode, we will discuss the following: 1. How can alcohol impact our ability to make intentional decisions? 2. What are the potential risks of developing alcohol dependence? 3. How can per…
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Today’s guest episode is a powerful one! Lauren Zoeller doesn’t hold anything back in this interview. Sneak peak: "When you start to get into somatic work and really understanding the nervous system and understanding the four survival responses, you can really see where your body is in a moment to moment basis and then say, oh, wait a second, I'm i…
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In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, I will help you discover the courage to set boundaries, confront your inner beliefs, and ultimately break free from the unconscious distancing strategies that impede your journey to securely attached love. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How to identify four signs of an avoidant…
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Do you ever feel overwhelmed by fear of abandonment? To cope with fear of abandonment, one should focus on self-soothing, slowing down emotional investment, and gathering data on people to determine whether or not a relationship is worth the investment. Doing this can reduce fear of abandonment as it creates a relationship built on reality and data…
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In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, I dive deep into the science of Attachment Theory to help listeners understand WHY we sabotage relationships and how to move towards secure attachment. I explain how secure attachment helps not only in your dating life, but with your mental health as well. Here's what I cover: 1. What is the rela…
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You will not believe who today’s guest is! The one and only, Dr. Jessica Griffin, previous co-host of Lifetime’s Married at First Sight, renowned relationship expert, and clinical psychologist. After a lifetime of studying relationships and coaching couples, Dr. Jessica Griffin unexpectedly finds true love in an ironic twist of fate, and now recoun…
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In this episode, I guide you through the process of breaking free from an addiction to chaos in relationships, empowering you to take control of your life and create a compelling future for the next generation. What better legacy to leave than healing, and great relationship, am I right?? Here's what I cover: What is the addiction to chaos in relat…
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"Discover Kirsten's powerful journey of finding love, with the help of Dr. Morgan and a willingness to become securely attached!" "I had to find myself and figure out what that was before I could even be ready for a relationship like this. So I think it's just crazy how the timing happened with it all, because I literally met him two months after t…
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"When we can learn to come back to the truth of who we are, I feel as if everything just becomes a bit more simple. The kindest, most loving thing to do for ourselves is often the thing we don't want to do - but it's worth it to create stability, safety, and love." - Susie Moore Susie Moore is a world renowned life coach, author and host of the top…
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ooooooof ! This is a top requested episode! Inside of this episode we discuss: -Why setting boundaries is so hard -Scripts for boundary setting -How to begin to redefine relationships Aaaaaand so much more! You don’t want to miss this 💕 We’ve all had to learn to set boundaries and this episode will support you in becoming a boundary pro! Did you kn…
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This is a juicy one! Don’t miss this episode. Inside: I talk about a post that triggered me recently I go into detail about Independent Women who are ALSO securely attached! I talk about elevated consciousness and the power of optionality So many women are struggling with the idea of being securely attached AND self reliant. I need you to know you …
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This is a very important episode. This topic has come up SO MANY times before. And I am finally going deep into my own personal story regarding how I was able to heal my body image. Your relationships are directly impacted by your body image, and I know this episode will help you on your healing journey! I dive into: -Separating self-worth from how…
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This is one of those episodes where you might need a tissue close by! I am so humbled to have Carla Moule on the podcast. She is an amazing graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, who dramatically transformed her life while doing the program. Inside of this episode: -Carla tells us what life was like for her before the program -She opens u…
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Resentment, guilt, shame, anger… Holding on to these emotions is like wishing death upon someone else, and then drinking the poison yourself. Inside of this episode: -I discuss the negative impacts of holding onto Forgiveness -I take you through a guided meditation to release whatever you’ve been holding on to -I talk about what we can feel instead…
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After two years of hard work, my first book is launching on 1/10/23. I can’t believe it! That’s TOMORROW! I felt like I needed to give you all a backstory on how this book came to be. This episode is a walk through my past relationships, and I take you to my “rock bottom” moment where everything changed for me. I hope this one is inspiring for you,…
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Dating can feel SO HARD And so many people I coach get in the dating scene, only to get out of it quickly And you say things like: “I’m just gonna focus on me” “I don’t have time to date” What I hear is: Dating is painful. It drains my energy…I don’t want to get hurt again. Inside of this episode I give you: -My take on making dating sustainable (a…
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Do Goal setting the right way! Too many people set goals only never to achieve them. Most people are doing it all wrong. NOT YOU! Not this year! Tune in to this episode for: -How to set goals that actually come true -What’s actually most important about goal setting -WHY you probably haven’t achieved long term success in the past 2023 is your year.…
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If you’ve ever been curious about clinical definitions for relationship dysfunction, you’re gonna love this episode Inside of this episode: -The Diagnostic Criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder -Examining the attachment style overlap with BPD -The importance of acknowledging that change is possible (no matter your past) Aaaaand so much more!…
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This episode is brought to you by some incredible audience questions! On today's episode we dive into: What is Secure attachment anyways? (What are the thoughts, behaviors, and emotions associated with a healthy relationship) Can you have a great relationship without butterflies? What to do when you’re not attracted to someone who is giving you all…
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Today’s episode is waaaaaay overdue. I am talking about Feminine Energy today, in a way that I have never talked about it before. Inside of this episode I dive into: The importance of Polarity in relationships Why so many women struggle with Feminine energy How to access your feminine energy more easily I think this episode will give all of you ple…
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Do you know the Six Human Needs? Inside of this episode I dive into: The Six Human Needs we all have (consciously or unconsciously) Why the need for Significance can really mess up your relationships if you’re not careful Healthy Ways to Meet our Needs in Relationships You won’t want to miss this one! Make sure you take notes and ask yourself, what…
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Oooof this one is a tough topic! I get asked this alot: “how do I move on from a friendship that is no longer serving me? “ Inside of today’s episode I talk about how to approach this challenging scenario. We dive into: -How attachment styles can show up in friendships -The process for feedback (example language you can use) - What to do if the fri…
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Back by popular demand- Another episode on protest behaviors! Inside of this episode: -I discuss common protest behaviors (in plain english so you can recognize them) - I explain WHY protest behaviors happen -We dive into what you can do instead, and I give you actionable advice that you can apply to your life right now If you’re ready to get a hea…
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The dating pep talk you didn’t know you needed! Save this episode for anytime you need to be reminded that you are a magnet for healthy love and your person is already on their way to you. Inside this episode: -A dating mindset complete reset -My absolute favorite healthy love affirmations for rewiring your brain -The science behind affirmations an…
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