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Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? Get in touch at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Take our free training for men at https://evolutionary.men/dearmen
 
Unfiltered is a podcast series that sheds light on those working in the adult industry, and explores all topics of sex with authors, educators, and advocates. Hosted by world renowned erotic photographer and director Holly Randall, she interviews some of the biggest names in the adult industry, and various non-porn guests who touch on the subject of sex in one way or another. With an honest and humorous outlook on life, Holly strips away the misconceptions on people who work in the sex indus ...
 
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What does it mean to be “good” at sex? Melanie Curtin has built her career around helping people have better sex. As a sex researcher and men’s coach, she believes that sex is something that can—and should—be practiced and perfected. We chat about what men really want from sex, how polyamorous couples find freedom outside the marriage, and how to r…
 
How do you keep sex hot in your relationship over time? How do you generate attraction on a date without feeling like you're forcing it (whether a date with a new person you met while online dating or your wife of many years)? How can you encourage your woman partner to relax, soften, and receive without saying a word? You've probably heard us talk…
 
Cherie DeVille knows her niche and has shamelessly embraced the stepmom genre, branding herself as the MILF cougar you know and love. Holly and Cherie are friends in real life, so no topic is off limits in this interview! She talks about getting into character, what turns her on, and the sex scene that was so emotionally charged she cried on set. D…
 
'Tis the season for reflection, and here Jason and I each share our top learnings when it comes to hearing from -- and coaching -- hundreds of men on dating, relationships, marriage, love, sex, separation, devotion, divorce, infidelity, personal growth, dedication, longing, and more. Whether it's wanting or needing more sex in a long-term relations…
 
Aaliyah Love went through a life changing experience and never thought she’d talk about it in public…until today. She shares how her confrontation with death changed her perspective on life forever. Don’t worry—we get to dicks! Aaliyah talks about her ideal penis size, how to please her in bed, and why some directors don’t want her back on set. She…
 
It might seem like a paradox: You're in a long-term relationship with a woman, yet it's actually harder to approach her for sex. You might think it's more difficult to approach a new sex or dating partner, but in fact it can be even more challenging to initiate sex with your wife/spouse. Here, Jason gets personal in terms of his experience having t…
 
In the world of advanced sexual mastery for men, the non-ejaculatory orgasm (aka "energetic orgasm" or "full-body orgasm") looms large. In this episode, Cam Fraser, Australia's leading sex coach for men, gets into the details around this. Because if this kind of sexual mastery is interesting to you as a penis-owner, you may wonder: How do you actua…
 
Meet Sophie Anderson, an immensely popular British pornstar who is known for her outrageous online character and her even more outrageous scenes. But despite her "give no fucks" attitude, in this interview she proves to also be a loving, thoughtful person who is fiercely protective of her teenage son. In this interview Sophie talks about how she ba…
 
How good are you at gauging whether a woman is interested in you? How 'bout how to "escalate" in a titillating yet ethical (non-creepy) way? YouTube personality Marni has been a "wing girl" to thousands of men over the years, and in this lively discussion we get personal. We cover how she got her start, what she has learned about men, dating, and s…
 
In the very first episode Holly interviews her parents: world-famous erotic photographer Suze Randall and her business partner (and husband) Humphry Knipe. They discuss their lives as ground-breaking pornographers during the 70s through the 90s, including Suze’s time as the first female staff photographer at Playboy, working at Hustler during the t…
 
Ever wondered whether you have a normal or healthy relationship with weed, alcohol, or another substance? Here's a related thing to consider: I've dated a number of men who used marijuana or alcohol to regulate (i.e. they were functioning alcoholics or weed addicts), and I was scared to tell them how it affected our relationship. It's hard to tell …
 
Sabina Rouge sets the record straight by disputing online rumors about how she grew up, and explains how the adult industry has changed her life for the better. Porn gave her the foundation she's always wanted, and allowed her to pursue her current passion of creating music. Inspiring and hopeful, Sabina is a bright light and her enthusiasm is infe…
 
When your partner triggers you, how do you respond? Do you have boundless patients and flawless boundaries? Or do you struggle to know how to get your needs met while also ensuring that your partner feels respected, cherished, and seen? Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, and I get real in this conversation that includes how to "out" ourselve…
 
Vanessa is 68 and proud of her age! Her claim to fame is being the first MILF back before this craze ever became a thing in the adult industry. But there's so much more to this fascinating woman-- kicked out of Mexico for having an affair with a high-ranking politician, Vanessa found then herself married to one of the biggest drug smugglers in Lati…
 
Nope, we're not talking about your favorite porn video -- we're talking about what your particular psyche finds sexy. It turns out your hottest sexual movie is a fundamental part of your sexuality you might not even know about yet. Celeste has worked with thousands of both men and women to discover their core desires, and we discuss themes that ari…
 
Casey Calvert has made a name for herself as a performer, but her new venture into filmmaking proves to be both challenging (and rewarding) for many different reasons. On this episode, she talks to Holly all about her new venture producing for Lust Cinema, and what the hardest thing about being a director is (it might surprise you). Support my show…
 
When you think of a sex educator, you probably think about school. But the truth is a lot of us need sex education as adults (even married folks!), and Kristopher Lovestone is a passionate advocate of healthy, fun, and informative sex ed for men who have sex with women. His new book Conscious Cock provides a wealth of info, which we discuss. We als…
 
With her unique blue hair, Jewelz Blu is hard to miss in a crowd. This rising star tells Holly all about her journey into the adult industry, her unusual and incredibly skilled hobbies, and the personal tragedy that effected the beginning of her career. Enjoy getting to know this bubbly and talented young woman who is sure to become a mega star in …
 
What has a woman who has sex with men want to sleep with a man again and again? What, according to sex research, makes a man great in bed? It's not what you might think. I was recently on Robbie Kramer's podcast Leverage discussing findings in my sex research. Thousands of women revealed what, to them makes a man a great lover. Interestingly, less …
 
We cannot deny that we live in a world where children can access hardcore porn easily online. With the lack of sex education provided in schools in America, kids have no context to what they are seeing. So how do we tackle this issue? Enter sex educator Justine Ang Fonte. She’s a health educator in NYC who provides age-appropriate sex education and…
 
Ever dated someone from a different background, or from a different country? What's sex and relationship like with a language barrier? Robbie and I get down and dirty in terms of our experiences as North Americans dating in Western and Eastern Europe, South America, Japan, the Caribbean, and beyond. If you've ever had sex or dated someone abroad (o…
 
Jasmin St. Claire has done it all: from holding a world record for biggest gangbang, to becoming an ECW wrestling personality, Jasmin surpassed her adult industry fame and continues to act in mainstream movies to this day. In this episode Jasmin tells us all about her rollercoaster career and how things have changed since her catapult to fame in th…
 
Ahhh, sexual shame. Most of us have it to some extent, and it can severely limit your sex and relationship life if you don't get it handled. Fortunately, integrating sexual shame is more than possible when you put attention on the right things. Whether you're in a dating relationship, having casual sex, or you're in a committed relationship, becomi…
 
With her dark hair and pale skin, Aella is undoubtedly beautiful- and so you could be forgiven for thinking this is why she's been so sucessful as a camgirl, escort, and online sex worker. But you'll soon learn her real strength is her incredible brain which leans on a data-driven approach to internet sex work. Aella has a keen insight into online …
 
“In short, the idea for Dripstick started at the intersection of baking and laziness.” Frances Tang is the founder and CEO of Awkward Essentials, and an all-around awesome human being. In the world of sex tech, she's also unique -- her product makes it easy for women to clean up cum (yep, you got that right) after sex. That might not sound like a b…
 
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Ever felt guilty or ashamed of your sexuality because of your religious background? Nikole Mitchell started life as a Baptist ... and is now an OnlyFans star! Along the way to reclaiming her full, passionate sexuality, she set boundaries with family members and learned how to be right with her own sex drive. She's also a sex-positive mother of thre…
 
When Joanna Angel met Casey Kisses and heard her incredible life story, she knew it needed to be told to the world. Adulttime's new movie "Casey" tells the true story of her life as a male biker to trans porn star, and how her transition cost her friends, family, and her bike club. A tale with this many twists wasn't easy to film, and Joanna and Ca…
 
Sick of getting ghosted or having other not-so-great experiences on dating apps like Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, etc.? While the apps are an important part of the sex and relationship landscape these days, there are lots of other stimulating ways to meet dating and relationship partners. Camille Virgina, author of The OFFline Dating Method: 3 Steps to A…
 
As a crossover performer (someone who works in both gay and straight porn) Dante is the first to win the new coveted title, Xbiz Performer of the Year Award. His experience on both the straight and gay side of the adult industry have left him with unique perspectives on male sexuality, stereotypes, and even dating. Support my show by supporting my …
 
Ever wondered what it's like to do ayahuasca, MDMA (molly), or psilocybin (magic mushrooms)? Are they right for you (can they help boost your sexual confidence, feel less anxious overall, and/or let go of old trauma)? Here, we share our experiences with different "medicines," as well as their huge advantages and drawbacks. People with relationship …
 
Ivy is a unique talent by any measure, and true to form, she holds nothing back in this discussion of her rise to popularity, her decision to walk away from it all, and why she's coming back now. Support my show by supporting my sponsors! Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories designed to turn you on. Get 30 days free access at DipseaSt…
 
"When I got out of the military, I couldn't feel a damn thing." While technically ending his military career as a success, Reeves' internal experience was totally different. He felt miserable and disconnected -- and this was the place from which he dated, had sex, and got into relationships. What happened? Nothing good! His partners were unhappy, h…
 
Nicole Emma is a sex coach, former sex workers, and was a guest on my Playboy TV show, Adult Film School! Together we reminisce on the show where I produced professional sex tapes of amateur couples, and how what happened behind the scenes was very different from what you saw in the show. We also discuss her TED Talk on "What Sex Workers Can Teach …
 
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