Best Melanie Curtin Podcasts (2023)

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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258: Should you wait to get into a relationship in order to work on your stuff? & other popular questions (ft. me!) 31:42

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Relate to any of the following dating and relationship questions? In dating, I tend to get attached/excited about someone fast, and then really disappointed when it doesn’t work out. How do I lessen the intensity of this? (This includes if you've just been messaging with someone on a dating app like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid, etc. and you thou…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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257: Porn sex vs. real-life sex: a woman porn director lays it out (ft. Holly Randall) [replay] 1:00:40

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By Melanie Curtin

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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256: How do you support her when she’s having a hard time (and also get your needs met)? (ft. Violet Lange) 59:33

39m ago59:33

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When a woman is going through a tough time (especially for an extended period of time), it can be easy to fall into a codependent dynamic. When she relies heavily on you to help her feel better, this can be taxing on your nervous system. And nobody wants codependence! How do you stay steady when things like financial stress, fertility issues, job c…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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255: GuyTalk: Fun with cunnilingus! 3 men share their experience of going down on women 58:24

5d ago58:24

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Oral sex can be super hot. In fact, some people consider it even more intimate than intercourse. As one writer put it, "Sexual intercourse is mostly selfish. Sure, you want the other person to get off, but your own orgasm is your first priority. But giving head is, at the core, a selfless act." Speaking of orgasm, 70%+ of women who have sex with me…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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254: The 3 common traps conscious couples fall into (and how to avoid them!) (ft. Allana Pratt) 59:24

27d ago59:24

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Let's say you're doing the work, and meet someone else who's doing the work. Now you're in a conscious relationship! Mazel tov! Now what do you need to know about sex, love, relating, and how it all connects? When you've got two people who are growing, you've got tremendous potential. You've also got some other stuff. ;) Allana has 20 years of help…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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253: Can you address erectile dysfunction with a science-based sex toy? Turns out yes. (ft. Dr. Soum of MysteryVibe) 1:15:22

19d ago1:15:22

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Sex is part of life, and major life events affect our sex lives. Here are just a few things you might've wondered about in the course of your own sex life: How do I overcome erectile dysfunction without drugs? (like Viagra or Cialis) What do I do if she's less into sex than me? (a difference in libido, which sometimes involves an arousal disorder) …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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252: How to date & have connected sex with a trauma background (ft. Michael Unbroken) 1:07:47

26d ago1:07:47

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Trauma recovery might not seem like the sexiest topic, but you guys, it is. When it comes to to having healthy, passionate, connected sex, dating, and love relationships, it's everything! You may have become aware (through, perhaps, this podcast) that you've likely got some childhood neglect or other kind of trauma background, and you may be wonder…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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251: Dating lessons from a dating show host! (ft. Alli Goldberg) 1:01:30

1M ago1:01:30

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"I'm a comedian, and now I’m an accidental matchmaker!" So says Alli, self-proclaimed theater geek and creator of Love Isn’t Blind — a new dating show where 4 men compete for 1 woman, and the men can’t speak. She's also the creator of the dating show where celebrities read your breakup texts. What's especially interesting is that as someone reading…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange 1:18:40

1M ago1:18:40

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One of the most inspiring things we've seen in our work with men is the rejuvenation of relationships. We've seen clients in long-term, committed relationships that felt flat, off, or just not exciting ... become vibrant and vivid again. We've seen couples get hot sex back! (often better than ever). We've seen closeness and intimacy be reestablishe…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it (ft. Jason Lange) 1:18:30

2M ago1:18:30

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Ever experienced the relationship pattern where she essentially says, "I was hurt by this thing you did," or, "I need you to love me better/differently" — and then you feel like you've failed, pull away, and maybe even have the desire to just stop trying altogether? Whether you're in a dating relationship or a long-term, committed relationship like…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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248: Hot sexting! How & when to sext, and more on sexual communication (ft. Dr. Tara) 1:02:15

2M ago1:02:15

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Curious about sexting, or how to bring it up/do it in the context of a new dating relationship? Maybe it's an edge you'd like to push, or maybe you're not even sure what it really is. (Hint: it can also spice up your marriage/long-term committed relationship.) Dr. Tara grew up in sexually conservative Thailand, and went through her own sexual awake…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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247: GirlTalk: Dating apps! What's it like being a woman on them? [Replay] 1:19:26

2M ago1:19:26

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Real talk: Dating can be hard! So many of us long to connect with one another, but the process can feel ... challenging. Whether you're contending with approach anxiety, not knowing what to text or when to call, when to ask her on an actual date (should you get to know her first via the text thread?), or how to gracefully handle rejection or ghosti…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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246: Getting to peak masculine vitality (ft. Michael Holt) 1:01:21

3M ago1:01:21

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Ever feel like you're dragging? Like you don't have enough energy to do all the things you want to do, or just wish you had more oomph in general? The fact is, when you're healthy and vital, you're more attractive. You also want to have sex more (your libido goes up). You're more likely to go for what you want in dating. And you show up as the best…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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245: What's it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi) 1:11:01

2M ago1:11:01

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How do you know if monogamy is right for you? Ever been curious about what it would actually be like to be a swinger, or date other people while still being in a healthy marriage? Jackie was actually married twice, in two traditional, monogamous relationships (with kids), before she connected with John — or, in fact, reconnected with him, since the…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:04:08

3M ago1:04:08

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We work with a lot of men in demanding professions, whether that means long work hours, high-stakes environments (like hospitals), hard manual labor, or being mentally taxing or stressful. Many of these men have to hide their emotions and/or vulnerability at work, and/or are in jobs like software development or IT that have them at a computer, isol…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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243: Why are European women more likely to speak up about sex? (ft. Guy Blaise) 43:27

4M ago43:27

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Guy Blaise is a Frenchman who has lived in the U.S. for a number of years. As a man who has dated and had sex with both European and North American women, he has an intriguing perspective. Here we delve into the differences between dating in France and the U.S., and the various questions raised by those, such as: Why are French women more likely to…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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242: Stepping off the 'relationship escalator' (ft. Amy Gahran) 1:06:10

4M ago1:06:10

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When it comes to dating, relationships, and sex, there's a strong cultural norm -- the plotline of what we're "supposed" to want. It goes like this: You start dating, become sexually exclusive, get engaged, get married, buy a house (with a white picket fence!), have kids, and stay together until you die. No sex, dating, or romance with anyone else,…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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241: What if you've ticked the big boxes in life ... but you're still not happy? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:40

4M ago1:00:40

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Ever felt "flat" in life? Like you've done a lot of the things you were "supposed" to do, but you're still not fulfilled? Or perhaps you just have this nagging feeling that more is possible. This is often a subtle pattern, but it's one we've seen in a number of our clients. Some have got a pretty good relationship with pretty good sex, but the sens…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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240: How do we raise good men? (ft. Luke Entrup) 1:03:53

4M ago1:03:53

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How did you know when you stopped being a boy and became a man (if that's how you identify)? And if you're raising a son, how will he know when he's a man? Rites of passage are critical to our development as humans ... but they're sorely missing from mainstream culture. Indigenous cultures and first nations have much to teach here. A big issue in m…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:02:39

4M ago1:02:39

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Ever read No More Mr. Nice Guy, or heard about Nice Guy Syndrome and related to it? If you've identified yourself as a Nice Guy, you may have the feeling, "Where do I go from here?" Jason, a self-proclaimed recovering Nice Guy, goes through the steps related to overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. Instead of being a Nice Guy, there's a new archetype: the …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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238: How do I approach a woman at the gym without bothering her? -- and other common dating questions (ft. me!) 39:52

4M ago39:52

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Here are 4 common questions I get from men, whether clients or listeners like you: How do I approach a woman at the gym or grocery store or other public place? How do I approach someone I work with to date? What do I do if I contend with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation (PE) and find that that blocks me from even approaching women…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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237: Going after the women YOU want (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 55:01

5M ago55:01

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If you’ve ever had the experience of being too scared to approach or pursue the women you really want, this one’s for you. (It’s also for you if you’ve ever felt like you were settling for a partner, rather than feeling thrilled and pumped to be with them.) Many men we work with have found themselves dating or even marrying women who approached the…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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236: GirlTalk: Four women share their hottest sexual experience ever [replay] 1:09:19

5M ago1:09:19

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Ever wished you could be a fly on the wall while women talked frankly about their sex lives!? We got you. Here, four of us women who have sex with men go into detail around the best sex we've ever had. We talk about dating, relationships, and what made certain men stand out when it came to the sex part. A few things that made the cut: blow jobs, be…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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235: "I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?" (ft. Jason Lange) 56:48

5M ago56:48

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Ever frozen up around someone you found attractive? It can be exceedingly frustrating — you're fine around other people, but put you in front of a beautiful woman and your system just shuts down. Before you can even get to dating someone, having sex, or being in a relationship, you've got to talk to them, right!? Many of our single clients want to …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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234: GirlTalk: Something we crave from men but rarely ask for ... [replay] 55:20

5M ago55:20

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There's a critical dating/relationship skill that some men have mastered, and it makes a huge difference on our side. It makes us feel special and also has us relax such that we can show up in our most exquisite, sexy radiance. But we'll rarely explicitly ask for it. Kinda like certain things in sex, we don't always say this out loud, but it's on o…

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258: Should you wait to get into a relationship in order to work on your stuff? & other popular questions (ft. me!) 31:42

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257: Porn sex vs. real-life sex: a woman porn director lays it out (ft. Holly Randall) [replay] 1:00:40

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256: How do you support her when she’s having a hard time (and also get your needs met)? (ft. Violet Lange) 59:33

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255: GuyTalk: Fun with cunnilingus! 3 men share their experience of going down on women 58:24

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254: The 3 common traps conscious couples fall into (and how to avoid them!) (ft. Allana Pratt) 59:24

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253: Can you address erectile dysfunction with a science-based sex toy? Turns out yes. (ft. Dr. Soum of MysteryVibe) 1:15:22

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252: How to date & have connected sex with a trauma background (ft. Michael Unbroken) 1:07:47

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251: Dating lessons from a dating show host! (ft. Alli Goldberg) 1:01:30

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250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange 1:18:40

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249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it (ft. Jason Lange) 1:18:30

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248: Hot sexting! How & when to sext, and more on sexual communication (ft. Dr. Tara) 1:02:15

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247: GirlTalk: Dating apps! What's it like being a woman on them? [Replay] 1:19:26

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246: Getting to peak masculine vitality (ft. Michael Holt) 1:01:21

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245: What's it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi) 1:11:01

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244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:04:08

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243: Why are European women more likely to speak up about sex? (ft. Guy Blaise) 43:27

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242: Stepping off the 'relationship escalator' (ft. Amy Gahran) 1:06:10

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241: What if you've ticked the big boxes in life ... but you're still not happy? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:40

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240: How do we raise good men? (ft. Luke Entrup) 1:03:53

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239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:02:39

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238: How do I approach a woman at the gym without bothering her? -- and other common dating questions (ft. me!) 39:52

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237: Going after the women YOU want (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 55:01

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236: GirlTalk: Four women share their hottest sexual experience ever [replay] 1:09:19

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235: "I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?" (ft. Jason Lange) 56:48

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234: GirlTalk: Something we crave from men but rarely ask for ... [replay] 55:20

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