Best Manwomandynamics Podcasts (2023)

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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260: How do you make consent sexy? An adult film actress shares! (ft. Tasha Reign) 51:44

12h ago51:44

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A lot of the men we work with don't want to be That Guy. The guy who's creepy or pervy or weird. The guy who makes women feel unsafe, whether on a date or in a relationship. But how do you figure out how to get consent while still maintaining your masculine core? Is it uncool to ask for permission to kiss her? (Spoiler alert: No.) And how does cons…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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259: Want her to feel safe with you, and free to be vulnerable? Learn to do this. (ft. Jason Lange) 1:02:56

8d ago1:02:56

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All of the men we work with, whether married, dating, or single, want women to feel safe with them. It's important to them that women trust them -- that women feel secure around them (even if that's "just" on a dating app). And women don't tend to feel deeply safe unless they feel claimed. In one woman's words: “When a man doesn’t claim me, I feel …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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258: Should you wait to get into a relationship in order to work on your stuff? & other popular questions (ft. me!) 31:42

15d ago31:42

31:42

Relate to any of the following dating and relationship questions? In dating, I tend to get attached/excited about someone fast, and then really disappointed when it doesn’t work out. How do I lessen the intensity of this? (This includes if you've just been messaging with someone on a dating app like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid, etc. and you thou…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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257: Porn sex vs. real-life sex: a woman porn director lays it out (ft. Holly Randall) [replay] 1:00:40

22d ago1:00:40

1:00:40

If you've ever been concerned about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and looked at male-bodied porn stars with envy, here's a fun fact: Close to 100% of male-bodied porn stars use Viagra/Cialis/other sexual performance enhancement drugs in order to perform on set. That's not the only thing that might surprise you about sex, love, datin…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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256: How do you support her when she’s having a hard time (and also get your needs met)? (ft. Violet Lange) 59:33

29d ago59:33

59:33

When a woman is going through a tough time (especially for an extended period of time), it can be easy to fall into a codependent dynamic. When she relies heavily on you to help her feel better, this can be taxing on your nervous system. And nobody wants codependence! How do you stay steady when things like financial stress, fertility issues, job c…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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255: GuyTalk: Fun with cunnilingus! 3 men share their experience of going down on women 58:24

1M ago58:24

58:24

Oral sex can be super hot. In fact, some people consider it even more intimate than intercourse. As one writer put it, "Sexual intercourse is mostly selfish. Sure, you want the other person to get off, but your own orgasm is your first priority. But giving head is, at the core, a selfless act." Speaking of orgasm, 70%+ of women who have sex with me…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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254: The 3 common traps conscious couples fall into (and how to avoid them!) (ft. Allana Pratt) 59:24

1M ago59:24

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Let's say you're doing the work, and meet someone else who's doing the work. Now you're in a conscious relationship! Mazel tov! Now what do you need to know about sex, love, relating, and how it all connects? When you've got two people who are growing, you've got tremendous potential. You've also got some other stuff. ;) Allana has 20 years of help…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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253: Can you address erectile dysfunction with a science-based sex toy? Turns out yes. (ft. Dr. Soum of MysteryVibe) 1:15:22

2M ago1:15:22

1:15:22

Sex is part of life, and major life events affect our sex lives. Here are just a few things you might've wondered about in the course of your own sex life: How do I overcome erectile dysfunction without drugs? (like Viagra or Cialis) What do I do if she's less into sex than me? (a difference in libido, which sometimes involves an arousal disorder) …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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252: How to date & have connected sex with a trauma background (ft. Michael Unbroken) 1:07:47

2M ago1:07:47

1:07:47

Trauma recovery might not seem like the sexiest topic, but you guys, it is. When it comes to to having healthy, passionate, connected sex, dating, and love relationships, it's everything! You may have become aware (through, perhaps, this podcast) that you've likely got some childhood neglect or other kind of trauma background, and you may be wonder…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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251: Dating lessons from a dating show host! (ft. Alli Goldberg) 1:01:30

2M ago1:01:30

1:01:30

"I'm a comedian, and now I’m an accidental matchmaker!" So says Alli, self-proclaimed theater geek and creator of Love Isn’t Blind — a new dating show where 4 men compete for 1 woman, and the men can’t speak. She's also the creator of the dating show where celebrities read your breakup texts. What's especially interesting is that as someone reading…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange 1:18:40

2M ago1:18:40

1:18:40

One of the most inspiring things we've seen in our work with men is the rejuvenation of relationships. We've seen clients in long-term, committed relationships that felt flat, off, or just not exciting ... become vibrant and vivid again. We've seen couples get hot sex back! (often better than ever). We've seen closeness and intimacy be reestablishe…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it (ft. Jason Lange) 1:18:30

3M ago1:18:30

1:18:30

Ever experienced the relationship pattern where she essentially says, "I was hurt by this thing you did," or, "I need you to love me better/differently" — and then you feel like you've failed, pull away, and maybe even have the desire to just stop trying altogether? Whether you're in a dating relationship or a long-term, committed relationship like…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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248: Hot sexting! How & when to sext, and more on sexual communication (ft. Dr. Tara) 1:02:15

3M ago1:02:15

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Curious about sexting, or how to bring it up/do it in the context of a new dating relationship? Maybe it's an edge you'd like to push, or maybe you're not even sure what it really is. (Hint: it can also spice up your marriage/long-term committed relationship.) Dr. Tara grew up in sexually conservative Thailand, and went through her own sexual awake…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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247: GirlTalk: Dating apps! What's it like being a woman on them? [Replay] 1:19:26

3M ago1:19:26

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Real talk: Dating can be hard! So many of us long to connect with one another, but the process can feel ... challenging. Whether you're contending with approach anxiety, not knowing what to text or when to call, when to ask her on an actual date (should you get to know her first via the text thread?), or how to gracefully handle rejection or ghosti…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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246: Getting to peak masculine vitality (ft. Michael Holt) 1:01:21

3M ago1:01:21

1:01:21

Ever feel like you're dragging? Like you don't have enough energy to do all the things you want to do, or just wish you had more oomph in general? The fact is, when you're healthy and vital, you're more attractive. You also want to have sex more (your libido goes up). You're more likely to go for what you want in dating. And you show up as the best…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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245: What's it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi) 1:11:01

4M ago1:11:01

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How do you know if monogamy is right for you? Ever been curious about what it would actually be like to be a swinger, or date other people while still being in a healthy marriage? Jackie was actually married twice, in two traditional, monogamous relationships (with kids), before she connected with John — or, in fact, reconnected with him, since the…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:04:08

4M ago1:04:08

1:04:08

We work with a lot of men in demanding professions, whether that means long work hours, high-stakes environments (like hospitals), hard manual labor, or being mentally taxing or stressful. Many of these men have to hide their emotions and/or vulnerability at work, and/or are in jobs like software development or IT that have them at a computer, isol…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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243: Why are European women more likely to speak up about sex? (ft. Guy Blaise) 43:27

4M ago43:27

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Guy Blaise is a Frenchman who has lived in the U.S. for a number of years. As a man who has dated and had sex with both European and North American women, he has an intriguing perspective. Here we delve into the differences between dating in France and the U.S., and the various questions raised by those, such as: Why are French women more likely to…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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242: Stepping off the 'relationship escalator' (ft. Amy Gahran) 1:06:10

4M ago1:06:10

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When it comes to dating, relationships, and sex, there's a strong cultural norm -- the plotline of what we're "supposed" to want. It goes like this: You start dating, become sexually exclusive, get engaged, get married, buy a house (with a white picket fence!), have kids, and stay together until you die. No sex, dating, or romance with anyone else,…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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241: What if you've ticked the big boxes in life ... but you're still not happy? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:40

4M ago1:00:40

1:00:40

Ever felt "flat" in life? Like you've done a lot of the things you were "supposed" to do, but you're still not fulfilled? Or perhaps you just have this nagging feeling that more is possible. This is often a subtle pattern, but it's one we've seen in a number of our clients. Some have got a pretty good relationship with pretty good sex, but the sens…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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240: How do we raise good men? (ft. Luke Entrup) 1:03:53

5M ago1:03:53

1:03:53

How did you know when you stopped being a boy and became a man (if that's how you identify)? And if you're raising a son, how will he know when he's a man? Rites of passage are critical to our development as humans ... but they're sorely missing from mainstream culture. Indigenous cultures and first nations have much to teach here. A big issue in m…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:02:39

5M ago1:02:39

1:02:39

Ever read No More Mr. Nice Guy, or heard about Nice Guy Syndrome and related to it? If you've identified yourself as a Nice Guy, you may have the feeling, "Where do I go from here?" Jason, a self-proclaimed recovering Nice Guy, goes through the steps related to overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. Instead of being a Nice Guy, there's a new archetype: the …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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238: How do I approach a woman at the gym without bothering her? -- and other common dating questions (ft. me!) 39:52

5M ago39:52

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Here are 4 common questions I get from men, whether clients or listeners like you: How do I approach a woman at the gym or grocery store or other public place? How do I approach someone I work with to date? What do I do if I contend with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation (PE) and find that that blocks me from even approaching women…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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237: Going after the women YOU want (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 55:01

5M ago55:01

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If you’ve ever had the experience of being too scared to approach or pursue the women you really want, this one’s for you. (It’s also for you if you’ve ever felt like you were settling for a partner, rather than feeling thrilled and pumped to be with them.) Many men we work with have found themselves dating or even marrying women who approached the…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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236: GirlTalk: Four women share their hottest sexual experience ever [replay] 1:09:19

6M ago1:09:19

1:09:19

Ever wished you could be a fly on the wall while women talked frankly about their sex lives!? We got you. Here, four of us women who have sex with men go into detail around the best sex we've ever had. We talk about dating, relationships, and what made certain men stand out when it came to the sex part. A few things that made the cut: blow jobs, be…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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235: "I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?" (ft. Jason Lange) 56:48

6M ago56:48

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Ever frozen up around someone you found attractive? It can be exceedingly frustrating — you're fine around other people, but put you in front of a beautiful woman and your system just shuts down. Before you can even get to dating someone, having sex, or being in a relationship, you've got to talk to them, right!? Many of our single clients want to …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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234: GirlTalk: Something we crave from men but rarely ask for ... [replay] 55:20

6M ago55:20

55:20

There's a critical dating/relationship skill that some men have mastered, and it makes a huge difference on our side. It makes us feel special and also has us relax such that we can show up in our most exquisite, sexy radiance. But we'll rarely explicitly ask for it. Kinda like certain things in sex, we don't always say this out loud, but it's on o…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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233: Creative monogamy -- how to open up a relationship strategically (ft. Dr. Joli Hamilton) 1:16:07

6M ago1:16:07

1:16:07

Ever wondered what it's actually like to open up a relationship -- meaning explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM), also known as polyamory? Whether you're wanting more or different kinds of sex, or just more connection, love, and variety in your relationships, your desires are valid, and being in an open relationship can be healthy and fulfilling. But …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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232: Love languages, conflict, connection, and repair 1:13:46

7M ago1:13:46

1:13:46

Ever been in a relationship where you felt like she was nitpicking at you, like you could never do anything right? Or ever been in a phase where it felt like she was never happy with you, and was sharp and poky or picked fights for seemingly no reason? Real talk: When I feel loved and cherished by my man, little things don't bother me as much. But …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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231: Her journey from vanilla marriage to BDSM and kink! (ft. Sara) 1:20:02

7M ago1:20:02

1:20:02

Ever wished you could explore different kinds of sexy things in your relationship? How exactly does one go from missionary position to consensual flogging? Well, let us tell you! When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, there's a lot of mystery around kink and BDSM. What "counts" as kinky, and how do you talk to your partner about wanting t…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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230: How do I inspire my woman to want more sex with me? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 58:28

7M ago58:28

58:28

A pattern we often hear from the men we work with is that it's really hard for them to approach their partner for sex. This could be a dating partner or someone they're in a long-term committed relationship with. Heck, it could be their wife. If you've ever Googled, "How do I get my wife to have more sex with me?" you're not alone. The fear of appr…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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229: Men have body image issues, too. (ft. Jason Lange) 53:06

7M ago53:06

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When we think about body image, shame, and appearance, we often think about women. And for good reason — there's a lot of pressure on women to look a certain way, and it's easy to feel less-than if you're not in your 20s with a flat stomach, a perfect ass, and a great rack. But men have all kinds of emotions and self-judgment in this area, too. Eve…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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228: Setting the mood for sensuality ... (ft. Amy Anthony) 48:16

7M ago48:16

48:16

What does it actually mean to "set the mood"? Yes, candles are fantastic — they give that soft light that makes everybody look great, and there's something to be said for that when it comes to sexy time. But there are lots of other ways to increase and enhance pleasure of all kinds, including scent. Aromatherapy is powerful, and here we outline how…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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227: How a woman can reclaim her erotic essence (ft. Violet Lange) 1:12:24

8M ago1:12:24

1:12:24

Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a long-term relationship, it can feel harder to maintain that over time. We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships -- some studies put it at 15% of all marriages. When it comes to sex, sensuality, and a woman's erotic essence, it can …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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226: GirlTalk: When men do this, we melt. (Yes, really!) [replay] 55:05

8M ago55:05

55:05

Want hot sexy polarity in your relationship or dating life? You're gonna want to master this. It's the one relationship skill to rule them all. Here, we get personal and real about the men we've been with who've done this skillfully (and made us want to drop our panties), as well as those who've missed the mark. You can learn from both. Where many …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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225: We're talkin' tussling! How positive emotional tension can enhance your relationship (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) 1:14:46

8M ago1:14:46

1:14:46

Ever felt like a woman was testing you, pushing your boundaries in annoying ways, or giving you a "shit test" (not a great term, but one you may be familiar with)? Here's a hint: if you don't want negative emotional tension, you may need to become skilled at positive emotional tension. Whether you're in a dating relationship, long-term marriage, or…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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224: What does it mean to have honest sex? (ft. Shana James) 47:25

8M ago47:25

47:25

What does it mean to actually be honest when it comes to sex? A lot of couples never really talk about their sex life in depth. Sure, maybe one person in the relationship says they'd like to be having more sex. But that's different from having real, raw conversations about what's working, what each person wants more or less of, and what their deep-…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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223: Sexological bodywork, somatic sex education, and overcoming trauma (ft. Chris Muse & Alyssa Morin) 1:02:07

9M ago1:02:07

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Ever wished sex were easier? As in, that you could feel totally comfortable in your body, fearless in your sexuality, easily ask for what you want, and facilitate hot sexy experiences with women you feel attracted to? Maybe you contend with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, or porn addiction. Maybe you're ashamed of how much you want sex…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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222: Are you using your woman for sex? (ft. Jason Lange) 52:54

9M ago52:54

52:54

Do you want more sex with your wife (or partner)? Ever wanted to have sex in order to feel better? Do you get really pent-up when you haven't had sex with your woman in a while? Men these days are overwhelmingly lonely. Over the past 30 years there has been a drastic drop in rates of friendships for both women and men, but the trend is far more pro…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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221: What's her feminine storm, and what's abuse? (ft. Violet & Jason Lange) [replay] 49:51

9M ago49:51

49:51

Ever been abused by a woman partner? Been with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? If so, you're not alone. But you may be confused. Physical abuse is pretty clear — if someone throws something at you or hits you, you know they're abusive. But what about emotional abuse? The line between her healthy emotional expression and emotiona…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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220: How do I tell if she likes me? (ft. Jason Lange) 56:34

9M ago56:34

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What are the signs a girl likes you? How do you know whether a woman is interested? If you're a man who has sex with women and you've ever wondered how to tell if she likes you, you're not alone. It can be especially hard to tell when it's a woman in a service role, like a barista, waitress, or cashier. How do you know whether she's just being frie…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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219: How do you handle it if one partner's up and the other is down? (ft. Jason Lange) 57:52

10M ago57:52

57:52

As a culture we don't talk about this a lot, but what happens when you're jealous of your partner? Not jealous in the traditional sense, but wanting to feel as successful as your partner — say financially, or career-wise. It can be hard to handle it when your partner is doing better than you in a certain way, because while you want to be happy for …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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218: Lost that spark? How to get the chemistry back in a long-term relationship (ft. Alicia Davon) 58:46

10M ago58:46

58:46

If you've ever been married or in a long-term committed relationship, you know that the sparks that flew at the beginning don't just keep burning over time -- especially if kids are in the picture. When you're cohabitating, parenting, running a household together, and dealing with life's everyday stressors, sexy time can fall by the wayside. While …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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217: When sex is about more than just the sex. (ft. Jason Lange) 50:28

10M ago50:28

50:28

Ever felt like your wife or partner has sex with you just to fulfill her duty in the relationship? That she's not really into it, but knows she "should" or feels like she "must"? If so, you're not alone -- for many men, one of the most painful experiences in long-term relationships is feeling like their partner is just "letting" them have sex with …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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216: Special GuyTalk: Sexual challenge, consciousness work, and relationship 45:02

10M ago45:02

45:02

Ever struggled with porn addiction, premature ejaculation, concern over how your cock looks (for the record, all penises are beautiful, including uncircumcised ones)? Ever had trouble asserting yourself in relationship, or telling the full truth, or asking for what you really want? This SPECIAL EPISODE goes into all that and more. Our first mosaic …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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215: Are you intimidated by her emotions? Here’s what to do (ft. Jason Lange) 53:13

11M ago53:13

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Ever been scared of your woman's upset? You’re not alone. Perhaps you can hold space for her hurt, anger, or grief if it’s not about you (i.e. she’s upset about work, or a friend). But as soon as it’s about something you did, you want to turn away or you get overwhelmed. Whether you're dating, married, or somewhere in between, if you’re always at t…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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214: How does the father wound affect a man? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:03:09

11M ago1:03:09

1:03:09

"Kids have a hole in their soul in the shape of their dad," says Roland Warren, former president of the National Fatherhood Initiative. "And if a father is unwilling or unable to fill that hole, it can leave a wound that is not easily healed." If your sex and love life hasn't worked — i.e. you often attract chaotic partners; or you can't seem to sc…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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213: “Why isn’t my wife attracted to me anymore?” (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 47:30

11M ago47:30

47:30

Ever had these kinds of thoughts?: “If I didn’t initiate sex with my woman, we’d never have it.” “My partner doesn’t want sex as much as me.” “I sometimes feel like she only has sex with me because she feels like she has to." If so, you’re not alone. This is a painful problem in a relationship. When you feel like your partner is constantly turning …

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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212: Have you had a disappointing love life? (ft. Dr. Thomas Jordan) 54:36

11M ago54:36

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"I was raised by a mom who was dependent, controlling, and self-centered. Then I looked for women like that." So begins this episode about what it's like to attract the wrong kind of women repeatedly ... and then do something different to get a different result. The root of the word "familiar" is family — what we learn in the family is familiar. So…

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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211: One of the deepest modalities I've encountered thus far (ft. Jessica Hagan) 1:10:23

11M ago1:10:23

1:10:23

Most men I work with want a healthy, happy love relationship. Yet it often feels like there's something in the way -- some kind of block or sense that there's something "wrong." This can even provoke the kind of loneliness that leads to thoughts of suicide. If this is you, then one thing to include in your awareness is your family lineage. You like…

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