Best Estherperel Podcasts (2023)

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating -Is it safe? 40:01

3h ago40:01

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Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the final episode of Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating. And we are finishing up with...is online dating actually safe? Today I'm breaking down: *How…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - My Emotional Inheritance 41:58

4m ago41:58

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A woman comes to Esther with a question about how to move on from the pain that her parents have caused her. They’ve begun family therapy but she wonders if she can continue to have a relationship with her father when his opposing political beliefs directly impact her identity. Is it okay to sweep things under the rug for the sake of family? Esther…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating - Ultimate Guide to Romance Scams 45:26

10h ago45:26

45:26

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Get ready, today is a doozy! Today I'm going to breakdown everything you need to know about romance scams. A romance scam is "when a con artist fakes romantic interest in…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Swipe Stories TV Breakdown: Five Lessons from Tinder Swindler 53:40

7d ago53:40

53:40

It’s a bit hard to introduce a topic as wild and heavy as sociopathic behaviors and emotional manipulation… but here we are. Let’s dive into it! Listen in to this episode of the RD Podcast as Kira talks about the new Netflix documentary, The Tinder Swindler, and five lessons we can take away from it. Kira also breaks down the concepts of cognitive …

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - Is This Survivor's Guilt? 40:46

2d ago40:46

40:46

Esther speaks to a man struggling to live a life he can enjoy. He feels wracked with guilt over a troubled history with his birth mother and her life of suffering. She was unable to raise him, but now she needs him to be there for her. He questions what he owes her for the life she gave him. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute intervention…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating - Rejection Projection 1:03:58

11d ago1:03:58

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BLACK FRIDAY SALE IS HAPPENING THROUGH MONDAY! CLICK HERE We are in the second episode of talking about the realities of online dating. Today I breakdown how & why rejection feels so much worse on dating apps. I talk about: *What types of rejections happen in dating *What we CONFUSE with rejection *Why rejection hurts so much *Why I think rejection…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Motherless Women 38:47

19d ago38:47

38:47

This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A couple with two small children are at physical and emotional odds in their relationship. One has given herself over entirely to the children, while the other struggles to find her place within the family dynamic. She yearns for the physical closeness she once had with her …

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating - Paradox of Choice 28:17

21d ago28:17

28:17

Today I breakdown the paradox of choice in online dating & apps. I talk about: *What milk options in a grocery store has to do with online dating. *Meet the Paradox of Choice, how it has changed modern dating, & why it matters. *how online dating has changed the way we date from earlier generations in more ways than you think. *the difference betwe…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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She's Out, He's Still In. 58:29

16d ago58:29

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After 20 years together, they wonder if their marriage has run its course? She is too unhappy to stay together and doubts if she ever felt true passion for him. He is holding onto the relationship for the both of them and refusing to truly hear her. Esther explores his desire for hope and her desire for change. Learn more about your ad choices. Vis…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: Is Your Attachment Style keeping you Single? 44:31

27d ago44:31

44:31

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Books Referenced: Attached My favorite for Anxious Attachment Insecure in Love Article Referenced: Fictional Character Attachment Favorite Attachment Quiz Like this? Take…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - Depleted Mothers Club 31:20

23d ago31:20

31:20

How do you begin to define a new identity for yourself when you've left the comforts of the world you've known in search of a bigger life? This is what Esther helps a new mom of two figure out as she navigates a new country, new friendships and a new approach to big changes. How to not put the pressure of everything on your partner and try to build…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: The #1 Mindset You Need for Love 57:10

1M ago57:10

57:10

Join me in the Reinventing Dating Program on November 11, 2023! Learn more here Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Books Referenced: Mindset by Dr Carol Dweck Carol Dweck Ted Talk Like this? Take a worksho…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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A Marriage Organized Around Trauma 56:12

1M ago56:12

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He was deployed to Fallujah, Iraq in 2004. In the 20 years since, he has struggled with PTSD and addiction. She has long taken on the role of his caregiver, ready to jump in when she senses the old traumas are rising. This has often meant sacrificing her own needs as an individual, partner, and lover. With Esther’s guidance they start the practice …

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: The History of Love & Dating (& why it still matters) 44:22

1M ago44:22

44:22

Join me in the Reinventing Dating Program on November 11, 2023! Learn more here Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Articles Referenced: Mark Manson Article Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Sexlessness 37:16

1M ago37:16

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This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A new marriage and a young child—both are first-generation children of immigrants, bridging the divide between an American childhood and an Indian cultural heritage. The moment sex was no longer forbidden, it became deeply uninteresting for one of them. Is something bigger g…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: The Five Stages of Relationships 26:40

2M ago26:40

26:40

Like this episode? Learn more about love when you check out the FREE What is Love? Workshop. WhatisLoveWorkshop.com Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Articles Referenced: Harvard article Like this? Take a…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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A Hospital Divided 58:35

2M ago58:35

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They're best friends and ER doctors at a small hospital. During the pandemic, they experienced a fracturing among their coworkers, who they once thought of as family. After one of them develops an autoimmune disease that renders her immunocompromised, she begins to wonder why her coworkers can't prioritize her safety. This episode was recorded afte…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: What is Love? What it really is, what it isn't, & how we keep it. 47:59

2M ago47:59

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Like this episode? Learn more about love when you check out the FREE What is Love? Workshop. WhatisLoveWorkshop.com Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership. Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Books Referenced: Love 2.0 by Dr Barbra Frederickson S…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - I Left. Now I Want My Wife Back. 43:00

2M ago43:00

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He fell in love with someone at work and left his wife. Fast forward a year, he's engaged and realizes he's made a mistake. Now he wants his wife and his life back—but even if she takes him back, he tells Esther he doesn't feel he deserves to be happy. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edit…

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Foundations: The Real Truths Why Dating Isn't Working For Us. 18:41

2M ago18:41

18:41

I'm getting back to basics today & breaking down the SIX truths of what I see NOT working in dating right now. Listen up.By Kira Sabin

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

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Welcome to Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin 2:42

2M ago2:42

2:42

Is love even worth it anymore? Hell yeah, it is. But dating pretty much sucks. Even on its best day, dating is vulnerable, stressful, exhausting, confusing. Everything's changed! Who pays? Who asks who out? Am I sharing too much, too little? ARGH! So here's some good news. The great news is that in the past 30, 40, even 50 years, there have been to…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Tell Me I'm Not Alone 43:00

2M ago43:00

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This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A young family, a ten-year age difference, and a wife who used an extra-marital relationship to find independence. After an affair, the choice to forgive and rebuild doesn’t wipe away the pain and the betrayal. Esther guides this couple on their path towards reconciliation a…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - Self Love Isn't Something I Grew Up With 38:40

2M ago38:40

38:40

Esther talks to a woman who was passed over for a promotion, again. She straddles two cultures and finds that it is impacting her work and her personal life more than she realized. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edited for time, clarity, and anonymity. If you have a question you would li…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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How's Work? - The Preacher's Wife Part Two 42:08

2M ago42:08

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When a tragedy shakes their church and their community, both the preacher and his wife try to put the pieces back together for themselves and his congregation. This is the second part of a special two-part episode. This episode contains discussions of a death by suicide. Please take care listening. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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How's Work? - The Preacher's Wife 52:16

3M ago52:16

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She has never quite fit into the mold of the preacher's wife in their small town. He has put his self-worth solely into his career, as a bandaid over deep-seated childhood insecurities. They have never been able to come to terms with the resentment they both experience. This is the first part of a special two-part episode. Learn more about your ad …

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - My Brother's Wife Ruined Our Relationship 27:53

3M ago27:53

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In this Esther Calling, we meet a woman who feels that her brother's wife is standing in the way of her relationship with her brother. For years, she has compared the closeness she shares with her brother to all of her romantic relationships. And because of it she has found herself single, time and time again. Esther talks her through the question …

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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The Addict 42:02

3M ago42:02

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This episode is a classic session of Where Should We Begin from season 1. They're grandparents, with a 40+ year love story and a stable, happy marriage. But one of them had quite a few secrets. Now, with everything out in the open, they’re hoping Esther can help them work through some of the residual shame, guilt, and pain. Learn more about your ad…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling- I Want Her to Like Me Less 28:22

4M ago28:22

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A woman in her 40s talks to Esther about a crossroads in her life. She has begun a relationship with a supportive and loving partner, but without the constant roller coaster of emotions she's used to, she wonders if there’s something missing. Or is there something wrong with her? Esther Callings are a one-time, 45-60 minute interventional phone cal…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Esther Calling - I Crossed a Line I Never Thought I Would Cross 32:20

4M ago32:20

32:20

What happens when you transgress the one boundary you never thought you would? In this week's Esther Calling, Esther talks to a woman who began an emotional affair after 10 years with her partner. She has since found herself alone and devastated by her own actions, unable to forgive herself or move on from the pain that she caused. Esther Callings …

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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I've Had Better 49:50

4M ago49:50

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This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A couple, together a decade, with three young children. He reached out because a year after the discovery of his affair, they aren’t fighting anymore, but they certainly haven’t moved on. Esther’s not convinced they’ve ever really been able to hear each other. Can they recov…

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Long Distance and Lost 53:47

4M ago53:47

53:47

They knew each other as kids. He grew up in a house where love was never a guarantee. She had the seemingly perfect family and all the love in the world. They've recently begun a romantic relationship as adults, but still can't seem to find their footing and separate themselves from their vastly different histories. Learn more about your ad choices…

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