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True Tea is a podcast by Kat Blaque, a woman sitting at the intersections of transness, blackness, kink, sex positivity and polyamory. In this podcast, she answers questions asked about the nuances of her life and also poses questions to her audience with a desire to learn. Sometimes she's right, sometimes she's wrong, but either way she's honest and that's the True Tea.
 
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Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with Eris Young about their upcoming book Ace Voices: What It Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi Or Grey-Ace Eris Young. Out December 21, 2022. Order Ace Vocies: https://bookshop.org/books/ace-voices-what-it-means-to-be-asexual-aromantic-demi-or-grey-ace/9781787756984 Follow Eris: @Young_E_H Donate: patreon.com/…
 
Hey what's up hello! On this week's ~late night~ episode, two aspecs rank the worst and best(?) pickup lines. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/rating-bad-pickup-lines Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Preorder our book now! www.soundsfakepod.com/book …
 
Lucy Bludell AKA Games by Kinmoku is the disabled, gray-ace indie game dev who brought us the wonderful visual novel One Night Stand. In this episode, we talk about their personal journey, why an ace would make a game about a one night stand, queer representation in gaming, and her forthcoming game VIDEOVERSE!…
 
This month, we're having a conversation about how young is too young to be transgender. It's a rather rhetorical question because obviously anyone at any age can identify or understand themselves as transgender, but when it comes to trans care, there are some rather complicated realities that are often brushed under the rug in this conversation in …
 
Dr. Bexxx returns to give advice along with Chet and Diane who are both getting over COVID. A man calls in who switched bodies during a sex magic orgy and a return caller gets guidance on how to have dream sex with her convict partner. All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely c…
 
Hey what's up hello! In honor of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown coming out on September 13th, we're having a little book club! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/refusing-compulsory-sexuality-by-sherronda-j-brown Order Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: https://ww…
 
Hey what's up hello! You've read the title and you know what that means - we're diving back into Reddit! This week we answer the age old question, are the straights ok??? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/r/arethestraightsok Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakep…
 
I answer a question from Madison asking for advice when living with a partner for the first time. We explore a range of advice, from the practical to the emotional to the protective. As mentioned in the podcast, please refer to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence or any other DV/IPV organization for tips on how to put together a safety…
 
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about soulmates, starting with the chilling story of a woman who left her husband after meeting her soulmate in a love-at-first sight fiasco. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/are-soulmates-real Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt …
 
Hey what's up hello! On this week's episode, we define allonormativity and amatanormativity and share how we've experienced these in our own lives. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/allonormativity-and-amatanormativity Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com…
 
In this month's podcast episode, I asked the question: Am I demisexual or do I just have standards? In this call-in show, people who identify as demi and ace speak to me about the difference between these two and the complexities of not exactly experiencing sexual attraction the way many of us do. Support the show…
 
Wells is a contestant on Chet and Diane's new game show, Is It a Sex Toy, where he has to guess if the object shown is an actual sex toy or an ordinary item. A woman calls in who can't get aroused because she lives in a state that had abortion rights overturned and a man is having second thoughts about his sologamous marriage.…
 
Hey what's up hello! Sarah's an aro. Sarah's a libra. Libras are apparently romance-obsessed. Sarah doesn't like this. Let's discuss. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/libras-are-obsessed-with-romance Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Support the show …
 
Hey what's up hello! Ghosting. What is it, why is it a thing, and why is Sarah an apologist? There's only one way to find out, besties. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ghosting Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Preorder our book now! www.soundsfakepo…
 
Despite being overtly sex positive, I'm not really a person who jumps into the bed with people and for that reason, some people have suggested that I may be demisexual. For me, this is strange because I think most people tend not to rush into sex, but maybe hook up culture has made that feeling rare enough that it deserves its own sexual designatio…
 
Mommy's back! After my summer vaycay, I'm here to give some health updates, decisions about the show, and then talk about the main topic which is how to handle receiving help without feeling like a piece of poopie. Under capitalism we're taught that needing help is a weakness, a failure, a burden. But when you give help to someone else, it really s…
 
Chet and Diane talk about their recent trip to Tahoe, they recap a visit to Reno's finest Adult Boutique The Chocolate Walrus, they answer a question about Vasectomies, and they discuss their experience at a Nude Beach. To see the video for The Chocolate Walrus go to https://youtu.be/Ffz7A-HzQAo.By Stratt-On-Venus Productions
 
Hey what's up hello! We are back, and we are talking about pet names. Why are they a thing, and why are they like THAT? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pet-names-for-partners Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Preorder our book now! www.soundsfakepod.…
 
We continue our conversation about "pretty privilege", wether it exists and if the concept can be differentiated from other isms. We hear from a white transgender man who experienced "pretty privilege", a South Asian woman who grew up with a thinner, lighter skin sibling who was always treated better than her and a man from Brazil who speaks about …
 
The concept of "pretty privilege" is an interesting one for me. On one hand, I don't doubt it's existence and frankly, I've benefited from it. However, quite frequently. when I unpack what's considered attractive in the United States, it seems hard to differentiate it from other isms like racism, fatphobia and ableism. So I question if it is truly …
 
Chet, Diane, and Wells get serious for a moment and talk about the negative effects of Roe v Wade being overturned. They also answer a question from an older woman who experiences incontinence during intercourse and they help a man who's wife wants to have sex with him too often.By Stratt-On-Venus Productions
 
Hey what's up hello! As pride comes to an end, we're taking a look back at the best and worst (but mostly worst) corporate pride and rainbow washing activities of 2022. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/2022-corporate-pride-roundup Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soun…
 
We are by NO means anti-kink-at-pride, however, there are some staple lines in The Discourse that we see over and over that run counter to our experience. So, here's our asexual perspective along with some added nuance to properly complicate the conversation. We know this is a hot-button issue and we really, truly come in peace. Please do not assum…
 
Hey what's up hello! It's femcel summer (apparently?) and we're here to discuss what that means from an aspec perspective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/femcels Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Preorder our book now! www.soundsfakepod.com/book Sup…
 
Hey what's up hello! On today's episode, two aspecs try to explain the difference between a person being hot, sexy, pretty, or cute. What a wild ride! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspecs-describe-the-difference-between-hot-sexy-pretty-and-cute Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg…
 
Hey what's up hello! The internet tells us that our breath can tell us about sexual arousal. We know everything we read on the internet is true, so this week your local aspec podcasters discuss. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/breath-and-sexual-arousal Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://disc…
 
Chet and Diane introduce a pair of wooden posable figures, Woodward and Woodina, to help resolve common scenarios and issues that occur in the bedroom that Peter and Wells introduce. The gang helps a demisexual woman find a partner that she can connect with and a multi-bi lady seeks help in finding a sugar daddy.…
 
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