Megan, Kyle and Marty discuss their learning curve around practicing non-monogamy. Regardless of relationship structure, what they are really learning is about how to create healthy relationships with themselves and others. They speak with radical honesty, compersion, love, support and create safe spaces for each other to emote in the entire spectrum of emotions. Join them on this journey of healing & love through relating. Thanks for listening & sharing! (Online courses available at www.amo ...
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Welcome to the Open Deeply podcast where guests dive deep into the vulnerable experiences that shaped them. We believe life storytelling has power…the power to heal and inspire others. Join acclaimed dream team, internationally recognized sex educator Sunny Megatron and seasoned sex positive psychotherapist, Kate Loree, LMFT. Through a sex positive, trauma informed lens, we explore the struggles and serendipitious happenings that led to our guest’s truth, life purpose, and wisdom. In doing s ...
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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women
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Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.e ...
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What does it mean to be an artist of your life? Marty Bhatia explores this inquiry interviewing brilliant guests about what they believe being a life artist means. As Marty and his wife Megan and toddler twins prepare for their next adventure as expats this podcast is a public inquiry that Marty hopes inspires others to action in their life. Marty's exploring his art through physical projects in his community and in nature and storytelling. You'll hear about the ideas of vigilante volunteeri ...
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273: 3 myths about self-love ... and why it matters *so much* in relationship (ft. Megan Bhatia)
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Ever found yourself resentful of a relationship partner? Maybe you feel like you're always giving and never getting much in return. Perhaps you've seen her as selfish, not providing you with the respect, love, attention, or sex you need in order to feel connected. Everyone has heard, "You can't love someone else until you love yourself," but what d…
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275: What's life like as an erotica writer? (ft. Ruan Willow)
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When we think about sexy turn-ons and arousal -- especially when we're engaging in solo play -- many of us think about visual porn. The numbers bear this out: according to Psychology Today, 80% of men and 26% of women have watched internet porn within the last week. But what about other ways of being turned on? Specifically, what about erotica? It …
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274: How do you make sure you're not coming off as creepy? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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How do you know if you're being creepy? For many of our clients, the fear of making a woman uncomfortable -- or being seen as creepy -- can be debilitating or even paralyzing. These men are often concerned that they're "bad" just for wanting sex (hint: You're not. You're just human.). If you've ever been afraid of being perceived as creepy or a per…
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Queering Psychedelics with Dr. Alex Belser - Ep 46
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In this episode, Alex Belser, PhD joins us to discuss how psychedelics can help LGBTQIA+ people heal from bigotry and embracing their identity. After seeing him speak on stage at the Denver Psychedelic Science Convention on the topic of Queering Psychedelics, I knew we needed to have him on Open Deeply along with his co-presenter, Justin Natoli, wh…
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272: Your woman wants you to tussle with her. Yes, really. (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) [replay]
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Let's be real: For many men, it's often hard to figure out women. Moods change quickly, and often you know something is going on but you're not sure what (or how to find out). It's also hard when you feel like nothing you do is ever enough for her. Here we talk about feminine testing, and what it means to play with it by tussling. When she pushes y…
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Amory 80 | Plant Medicines & Relational Healing with Melissa Stangl
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Melissa Stangl is a Founding Partner and COO for Soltara, a healing center in Costa Rica. She is passionate about using her technical, managerial, and problem-solving skills to help bridge the gap between the Western world and the incredible healing potential of plant medicines and holistic health.www.soltara.co for more information about upcoming …
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Fluid Relationships: An Alternative to the Mono/ENM Binary with Kate & Sunny - Ep 45
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In this episode, we explore a mind expanding alternate to the traditional binary of choosing either a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship. Non-monogamy was created in reaction to the confines on monogamy. However, isn't it time to break free from this binary? If either one of these choices works for you, then great! But for many relationships…
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271: GirlTalk: What makes a woman truly trust a man? [replay]
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If you want a woman to fully surrender to you, you've got to inspire deep trust in her. This includes sexually -- a woman who deeply trusts her man is infinitely more likely to open up when it comes to sex. And most men want to be trusted. They want to be satisfying to their partner sexually, emotionally, and physically. They want their partner to …
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270: What is shadow work, and how does it make you sexier? (ft. Luke Adler & Jason Lange)
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Shadow work is popular in the personal growth community, and for good reason — it can be deeply transformational. Many people report deeper and more lasting shifts with shadow work than with years of talk therapy. But what’s talked about less often is how sexy shadow work can make you. As a woman who has sex with men, I can attest to this — a man w…
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Amory 79 | Exploring the Essence of Kink with Sunny Megatron
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"Everything you think you know about kink, throw it out the window!" - Sunny Megatron I am LOVING the conversation I had with Sunny Megatron, host of American Sex podcast, where we dig deep into the essence of kink. There are many overlaps with open relating as it relates to creating mutual agreements, seeking consent, communicating boundaries, int…
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How Psychedelics May Shift Polyamory with Justin Natoli - Ep 44
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In this eye-opening episode, Jason Natoli, JD, LMFT, and founder of the Queer Medicine Community, tells us about his amazing chapter within the book, Queering Psychedelics entitled, “How Psychedelics Can Guide the Transformative Journey of Polyamory”. He discusses how psychedelics can help with three primary struggles within polyamory: shame, past …
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269: What women truly crave from men (ft. Jason Lange)
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In our work with men who have sex with women, we've noticed a few distinct categories. There are three specific archetypes of men we see most commonly, and here we outline their patterns. We do this in part because I want to reveal the deep yearning on the part of a lot of women who relate with men romantically. While the themes discussed in this e…
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268: A woman’s biggest fear (and how you can help) (ft. Violet Lange)
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Want a woman to feel deeply, profoundly, extraordinarily safe with you? Able to surrender fully, relaxing all the way into your arms, allowing her body to open to you in ways you never knew were possible? Then you need to know about this. Whether you're dating or in a long-term committed relationship, there's an underlying fear that, according to V…
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Tools for Non-Traditional Relationships with Dedeker Winston - Ep 43
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In this episode, relationship coach and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, Dedeker Winston joins us to discuss her new book, “Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships” that she wrote along with co-authors Jase Lindgren and Emily Sotelo Matlack. Dedeker unpacks some fascinating key concepts in her book, like RADAR check ins and the Trifo…
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267: What do you do if your masculine role models sucked? (ft. Jason Lange)
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How did you learn to be a man? From whom did you learn, and what did they impart? More importantly, if this isn't how you want to be now, how you grow beyond what you learned? We learn how to be who we are from our parents and other caregivers. If you grew up with men who were absent, alcoholics, abusive, or just not emotionally attuned, then there…
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266: How do you get to breakthrough? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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Do you know you have trauma stuck in your body, but you're not sure how to move it? Perhaps you're aware that your issues are in your tissues, but you don't know what to do about it. If anyone knows what it's like to feel stuck around sex, dating, and relationships, it's Jason. He was a late bloomer, self-proclaimed Nice Guy, and didn't feel succes…
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Goddess Amina: The Politics of Sex to San Pedro - Ep 42
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This episode is part two with Goddess Amina (Amina Peterson). In this episode, we talk about everything from the politics of sex to psychedelics. Regarding sexual politics, Amina feels the best was to buck our patriarchal system is by offering and teaching something that is way better than anything patriarchy can ever offer…next level pleasure. Wit…
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265: What if she's got a sexual trauma background? How do you help? (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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If you want a thriving, connected sex life with your partner, but feel like something's in the way ... it could be sexual trauma. The fact is, 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys are survivors of child sexual abuse. To put that in perspective, that's 42 million women and 21 million men in the US alone. The bad news? We don't talk about this nearly enough,…
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264: How do we learn about sex? (ft. Yuval Mann)
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Was your family skilled at teaching you about sex? Was your school, or your religious community? HA. I'm guessing not. Many families of origin suck at talking about sex, dating, and relationships. And whether you grew up in a religious house or not, sex education tends to also be subpar, especially when it comes to teaching about sexual communicati…
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Amory 78 | Crazy Love - Kyle Moves to Oregon
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Kyle and I (Megan) share about the transformation of our relationship as Kyle moves to Oregon. Instead of closing our hearts, we are focusing consciously on building more secure attachment practices and new relationship agreements. For anyone in a long-distance relationship, or currently restructuring a relationship, this episode might provide you …
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263: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange)
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Has your woman ever been in her masculine, and you wished she was in her feminine? Here's something that doesn't work: "Hey, could you drop into your feminine already?" ;) So how do you polarize your woman well? Polarity is one of those mysteries in life like electricity: We don't fully grasp why it works, but we can harness its power to make our l…
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Goddess Amina on Tantra & Somatics - Ep 41
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In this episode, the Goddess Amina tells us her story from running away at age fourteen to becoming the tantric powerhouse that she is today. She explains the import of somatic healing and expounds on her belief that your orgasm is expansive energy, a way to experience your higher self. And her goal is to guide you home to your body, where your mag…
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262: Are you lonely? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Ever have trouble concentrating, or beat yourself up for not getting more done? Do you give yourself a hard time for watching porn & masturbating? Wonder why you just can't kick that habit you know is unhealthy (smoking weed, playing video games, drinking alcohol, etc.)? All of this is related to loneliness. Whether you live alone and work from hom…
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261: If I'm having doubts, does that mean she's not The One? (ft. Jason Lange)
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"I just can't make up my mind. Sometimes I feel like I'm settling, and that makes me sad. Sometimes I feel blessed to have someone as amazing as this woman who wants to be with me. The question I have is, if I'm having doubts or feelings that I might be settling, does that mean she's not The One? Or is it normal to have these feelings sometimes?" I…
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Sex & Psychedelics with Dr. Cat Meyer - Ep 40
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Licensed psychotherapist, Dr. Cat Meyer, joins us to discuss her two areas of expertise, sex and psychedelics, while disclosing much about her own personal sexual journey, such as the time she first discovered her Dominant side while at BDSM party. However, her wild soul was not always so free. Cat’s childhood was mired with an eating disorder and …
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260: How do you make consent sexy? An adult film actress shares! (ft. Tasha Reign)
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A lot of the men we work with don't want to be That Guy. The guy who's creepy or pervy or weird. The guy who makes women feel unsafe, whether on a date or in a relationship. But how do you figure out how to get consent while still maintaining your masculine core? Is it uncool to ask for permission to kiss her? (Spoiler alert: No.) And how does cons…
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259: Want her to feel safe with you, and free to be vulnerable? Learn to do this. (ft. Jason Lange)
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All of the men we work with, whether married, dating, or single, want women to feel safe with them. It's important to them that women trust them -- that women feel secure around them (even if that's "just" on a dating app). And women don't tend to feel deeply safe unless they feel claimed. In one woman's words: “When a man doesn’t claim me, I feel …
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Open Relating in Polyamory with Megan Bhatia - Ep 39
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In this episode, Megan Bhatia of Amory Podcast joins us to tell us about her two long term loves, husband Marty & partner Kyle. She unpacks the joys and challenges of open relating in polyamory and explains why polyamory is a spiritual journey. Of all the podcasts on non-monogamy, Amory podcast has the strongest heartbeat. It is by far, the most vu…
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258: Should you wait to get into a relationship in order to work on your stuff? & other popular questions (ft. me!)
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Relate to any of the following dating and relationship questions? In dating, I tend to get attached/excited about someone fast, and then really disappointed when it doesn’t work out. How do I lessen the intensity of this? (This includes if you've just been messaging with someone on a dating app like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid, etc. and you thou…
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Amory 77 | Creating Safety in Mind & Body (messages with @bustout_dojo)
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This episode of Amory is very different! It's actually an exchange of WhatsApp messaging with a friend who was sharing a major breakthrough in his healing journey. He describes the moment he realized the pattern between his emotions, and his thoughts...not getting overly identified with them, nor denying them. The ability to "be with" both his emot…
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257: Porn sex vs. real-life sex: a woman porn director lays it out (ft. Holly Randall) [replay]
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If you've ever been concerned about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and looked at male-bodied porn stars with envy, here's a fun fact: Close to 100% of male-bodied porn stars use Viagra/Cialis/other sexual performance enhancement drugs in order to perform on set. That's not the only thing that might surprise you about sex, love, datin…
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